dont know what to do any more

Joyontheway

So any time my hubby an i go to the hospital or the doc all he does whille we are there is sleep or complain about bein tired. the last time i ended up in l/d he was supose to go help him mom an he was mad a t me cuz he said that i was putting my self there so he couldnt go help his mom i just dont know any more all i know is he was not like thiswithany of our other childern. he would have droped any thing he was doing if i was in l/d. this is our 4th daughter i know he was upset due to it being another girl. i just know any more he is making me feel numb an like i dont even want there for dilvery.well c section i have quit telling hime stuff that happens at doc appts or any thing during the day cuz he never seem to be intrested any ways so y waste my energy. i dont i just need a little thanks

RTMommy

What a jerk.

Heather3girls1boy

I'm having the same problem. This is our 3rd my 4th, this is our first boy! I wasn't ready yet, he was. He hasn't come to one appt, I'm due in 1 week and 4 days. He has informed me that he can't take off work. So I'm on my own with figuring out what to do with a 6 year old and 13 month old while in the hospital. I am getting my tubes tied while there so I won't be able to just do it all myself this time. Grrr men!

Wilsomom

My hubby never goes with me to dr appointments lol, but it doesn't bother me though. I don't really expect him to since he's usually working.

Now l&d is another story, your hubby blaming you so he can't help his mom....that's just wrong!

jules

Well not going to the appointments if his working is one thing but nothing else should stop him from just at least knowing how it went. I just can't believe he made that comment about l&d and his mom sounds like u guys really need to talk maybe there's deeper problem that has nothing to do with the baby. It sounds like your thinking his super disappointment it's a girl again therefore he doesn't care. I'm thinking there might be other things going on with him. Whatever reason I would be feeling same way. I hope he comes around though.

candy101

Did he want another child? It sounds like he may not have wanted this one a all to me. If that is the case he may not come around until after it is born.

Joyontheway

@candy101 he says it was really soon whic i agree all of our daughters are 3-4 years apart this one is 21 months if she comes on her due date so i reall dont knw when ever i try to ask question about hows hes feeling an stuff like that al i ever get it i am happy