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So I just had my 2nd laparoscopic surgery on the 24th of July. My doctor found numerous things wrongs but was able to fix everything so that I can be pain free and able to get pregnant again. Here is what was told to me from my doc: he found out that when I had my son in 2011 (c-section) that the drs had some how stitched up my uterus and fallopian tubes to my abdominal wall. My fallopian tubes were blocked and damaged and my uterus and bladder were some how attached also to each other. He was able to go in and separate everything and fix my tubes and he found endometriosis on my right ovary in two places. So after all of that he says to me and my husband that he wants us pregnant in the next 3 to 6 months. Here's what scares me, I am at a greater risk for a tubal pregnancy. I am happy that everything is fine for now but to be at a greater risk for tubal pregnancy is what is making me think twice about getting pregnant again. Ladies I need some support here because I just don't know how to truely feel.
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In my opinion, assuming you do want another baby, i would say go for it. You never know what life has in store for you unless you take risks. And when the risk is something this scary, i know its a very hard decision...but something beautiful might come out of this.
I lost a daughter at 17wks pregnant after having surgery to remove a 16cm cyst. I was told that if i were ever to get pregnant again, i would run a big risk of losing the pregnancy again. I got pregnant a year and 3 months after my loss and thank God i have a healthy 2 month old today.
My point is that even when things go wrong, something good always comes along.
Sorry for the book. I hope that whatever you decide goes good for you
Go with your heart my body for some reason doesnot go Ito labor another c-section may be required is that somet you are willing to go through.