First of all I'm sorry that your sad. But maybe this will make you feel little better. My hubby got to cut our first daughter obviously and with our second I wanted to do it soo bad I even told him. But I felt bad cause I know it's special to him so I'm jealous you get to do it yourself!
The dr cut mine both times. My hubby was grossed out by it the first time and my second delivery, he got there 5 minutes after the baby was born. Have your mom do it. Grandma is a very special person.
I didnt realize this was a double post. Sorry guys.
@jules Aww I wasnt even sure the mom could do it. I never tonight about it I think I would freak out about it though seeing what was inside me it would make me think of a worm lol.
@rtmommy Aww. Im thinking of just getting it over with and letting the dr do it. I dont think my mom would be up for it. Plus I dont get along with my mom too much she would think she owns her kuz she cut the cord. Blah its just a sad feeling
Well the doc is obviously perfectly able to do it. I know for me it's very special so I would do it myself if I were in your shoes. But if you know later on you will still be perfectly fine with the doc have done it rather then you then go with that!
If it makes u feel better, my husband won't be around to do our daughters. I'm so sad he won't be around for the birth of our daughter that idk if I even want anyone else in the room with me yet.
@adri805 I still need to finish the nursery lol her crib isnt up yet either and I need to steam clean the carpet just to make sure its extra clean for her lol. Its just so much work I been putting it off lately lol. Im hoping i dont get overwhelmed with two I cant imagine three lol. Hopefully your 9yr old will help you
I'm on the same boat lol. I can't imagine three as well...I'm slightly nervous to say the least and lately my 9 year old has been on a rebellious streak and complains when I ask her to help me with anything. I asked her to help me unload the car after coming back from a trip to my parents house and u know what she said to me? It's your stuff!!! I wanted to strangle her
@adri805 Oh no shes in that age I thought i was the only one dealing with a meanie butt big mouth lol my little sister is 11 and she sounds just like that. Even though she helps me the majority of the time she has a big mean mouth and a horrible attitude. I guess we just have to wait for it to pass.
I hope it passes but everyone on her dad's side has this crazy attitude as it is...and smart mouth so it may stick. I pray to god not bc then I'm gna end up going crazy when she's a teenager. I don't ever recall being a meanie like that!!! How have u been feeling?
Fingers crossed it passes! @adri805 Ahh I been horrible lol. I want this baby out already! Im getting contractions constantly they just keep stopping I want to go into labor im so tired of nnot being comfortable lol hbu?
Ur almost there!! Do u get the back contractions or the other ones? Ive been getting dull back pain kind but like once a day for less then a minute and u only know what they r bc it's the same feeling/pain I had with my other 2. I've never experienced anything but the sharp back pain contractions. I'm getting anxious bc I haven't even had a baby shower this late in my pregnancy and I haven't put the crib up. I'm not even close to being prepared! R u all ready?
Oh hun im sorry if it makes you feel better my husband didn't cut the cord any of the times. The first time it was an emergency c section no time and the next it was a vbac and i tore so there was indeed no time. Who will be with you in the delivery room love ive missed so much!!
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@jules Aww I wasnt even sure the mom could do it. I never tonight about it I think I would freak out about it though seeing what was inside me it would make me think of a worm lol.
@rtmommy Aww. Im thinking of just getting it over with and letting the dr do it. I dont think my mom would be up for it. Plus I dont get along with my mom too much she would think she owns her kuz she cut the cord. Blah its just a sad feeling
@rtmommy thank younkt will be okay though >:D<
@adri805 Aww girl im sorry it actually dont make me feel better at all it makes me sad for you
We got this though girl! Im here for u if u need me
@adri805 im due 2-1-14 hbu?