@firstmama lmao i kno rite wit her old self! I was like lady leave me alone but yea i agree i love the way my parents raised me. My mom is as white as milk n dad as black as dirt n lmao my real father has a million kids as well! Smh wats wit these island guys?! My bf's father has like 15 kids too!
@ghettobetty the thing is mom doesnt even like her child bcuz shes having a boy. She barely likes her own unborn. I found tht to be totally insane. I wanted a boy but ive been blessed wit a babygirl n couldnt be any happier. How could u not likebur own child. I feel awful for him
My fiance is from Dominican republic another island. My first kid is half Mexican and second half black. I'm Italian and German. My house is a rainbow LOL
Well my dad said he always wanted a bunch of kids to take care of him wen he got old. Good luck wit that since he's a deadbeat. My gf ( dads father ) had like 11 so iono lol. I told my bf to only expect two lmao. @proudmommy627
Its called ignorance..... unfortunately its all around us... when i meet people like that I usually have no comment... nothing to say cause it wont be nice.
@firstmama i want a lot of kids for tht same reason! But i cant imagine being in the double digits n my father is a dead beat too! Havent seen him since i was 3. Spoke to him once at 14. My mom n step dad have been together for 17 yrs n i love him dearly. Hes the only dad i will ever kno
Yea that's y I never told my kids names before, they were too unique. With this one not sure what were naming yet but its not as big a deal to hide it for me this time. I like the name I want but bf doesn't so we will see. I just feel like I kno its a boy n haven't even found out yet so all I been thinkin bout is boy names. If its a girl I'll be lost lol hmmm kayden? Lol jk!
I tell everyone my kids names but I like old classics... has nothing to do with race its just what I like... well look at my name Betty old lady name...
My mom.raised me to not look at race.but my grandparents are different and I think its just because when they were growing up. And I think its all about how you were raised on how you look at people. There are bad people of every race. There are damn good people of every race. You have to look at qualities in a person and not color. Though sadly some people only see colors.
That has happened to a couple of my friends so I didn't tell any friends til my baby was born and I'm doing the same with number two and not my sister in law lol bc she loves to tell everyone ha ha anyways its paid off. Five friends it happened to and my step sister ... sorry I think that is so rude. And not original
Betty. Im the same way I get too excited and tell everyone. But the way I look at it. Some person some where in the world has that name. So its not a big deal to me.
@awhaley28540 my great grandmother is the same way. She is spanish n is very prejudice against black ppl. Said think is u can mistake her for being black smh its so sad
My mil did a search for how many ppl in the u.s. had my kids names n they r the only ones so far, that may include last names too tho I never asked. I may have to try just as hard with this baby, I didn't think id be up for the challenge but the more I think about it, I may just have to
Well my ex step sister and I are both Preg. She asked me on fb what I was naming my girl. I inboxed her that I was naming her Raegan but didn't wana post it cause people steal names. She just posted last week that she's having a boy and naming him Rogan. Wth? The are basically the same.
Lol my momma gave me a complex, my names too plain so my kids gotta suffer. Jk my sons name fits him perfect n my daughters is beautiful I'm happy with em, I think my sons may be more used now tho
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but yea i agree i love the way my parents raised me. My mom is as white as milk n dad as black as dirt n lmao my real father has a million kids as well! Smh wats wit these island guys?! My bf's father has like 15 kids too!
Btw my whole family is a rainbow
But i felt like tht too n it turned out im having a girl! so get started on figuring out girl names too u never kno lol