miscarriage

jadynbabygirl

I went to the doctor this last week on Tuesday for my normal 8 week check up. I went at 6 weeks and had an ultrasound and they seen the heart beat but found out at my 8 week appt that the baby died sometime in the 6th week after that first ultrasound. I was really devastated because this was the 3rd miscarriage for us in the last year and it felt so right this time like everything was going to be ok and I never felt like there was anything wrong. I had no idea. I had a D&C on Thursday. Everything went ok. They are testing ethe tissue for chromosome problems and doing a bunch of lab work on me. Not much I can do but hope it goes better next time. I just wanted to get my thoughts off my chest. This is the 3rd time like I said and I'm kinda feeling like the ppl I would normally talk to are kinda like they don't wanna hear about it like get over it we've already heard this story...if they really only understood what its really like...

jadynbabygirl

sorry this posted twice. I don't know how to remove it

Rachy606

Oh I'm so sorry for your loss. Your body is very clever though and would have carried it through if it could, so whatever was wrong with the baby, it may have been for the best. it still won't stop you getting upset about it though... Your friends are your friends though and whether it's the first time or the 50th time, they will still be there for you. They will be all the more happy for you when it finally does happen and you do go full term. definitely share your grief with them xx

Steeny

I am so sorry for your loss! I hope all your testing gives you some sort of answer so next time it takes! Keep trying our thoughts are with you!

vette_devil

I am so sorry. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

mscheyla

So sorry for your loss. With previous miscarriages has the doctors ever looked into it until now

jadynbabygirl

Thank you everyone! @Rachy606 I know they are always there for me. I just feel like they don't want to hear about it because it's always the same feelings. Maybe it's just because they don't know what to say. Idk. @mscheyla She said that it's not uncommon for women to have one or two miscarriages before having a normal pregnancy so she said she doesn't really do any testing until there's been 3 or more. So, she's doing testing now. A few different blood clotting issues, FSH, some estrogen or progesterone test, I can't remember the name of it. And I think there was one more

kjo83

So sorry... going through our second mc now... in 5 months... I know how u feel... good luck trying to find some reasoning...