Lol Exactly! Like everyone swears they know the guy right... nd anyways what difference will it make if they know who it is! People are so nosey. Makes me MORE mad when they ask me on fb where everyone can see nd others read my response ( I say I am the mommy and the daddy) bt yet others continue to ask wth can anyone get the hint?
I hate that too like its NO ONES BUSINESS TO KNOW. if I don't care to share with yu who it is just accept it. I am a very private person nd many ppl dk abt my preganacy yet. I feel like ppl shud jus celebrate the fact I'm pregnant nd thts it.
Yeah like if I say he's so n so are they gonna know him? No! Lol the people who are closest to me met him and know who he is. Id tell them point blank its none of their business but im always very outspoken...even more so while pregnant. Maybe something a little less like its not important who he is? I dunno. I might just delete their posts instead of responding too. The girl that asked me did so on fb too and when I told her it was no ones business I had a bunch of people put they liked my response! Lol thing I can't stand is people looking at my stomach while im having a convo with them. The baby isn't gonna jump out while ur looking! Lol
r u ladies talkin about like. if ur not w the bd. n ppl.ask n ur like nonya. or like if ur in a relationship n ppl.still ask like almost basically not believing u that ur prego by the same guy ??
@FirstTimeDaddy I'm speaking on people asking in general. Where I'm from its a small town and people love to gossip and talk. People are extremely nosey here.
oic. when she started tellin ppl we were havin a baby. one of her friends was like. n its ur bf's sje didn't take it to the heart but she was like wtf u callin me a ho?
@firsttimemommy711 haha I will put that next time! I try to be nice because I know how b****y I can get right now lol. Bt I shouldn't hold back what I want to say because then it will jst get me more mad. Oh gosh I heard about people doing that, I just haven't gotten there yet. Have u flipped out on anyone from just starring at ur tummy like that? @FirstTimeDaddy Well even when I was with bd I still hated it. If they have to ask that means they aren't that close to u to know who u been with therefor its none of their business & if they know the guy then they would most likely know who it is too right? Its just mainly people asking things that is none of their business. Like they don't talk to u for months and all of a sudden you get a ... "who is the daddy" from them. Its plain rude and nosey lol.
I see it as if you are not close to me den u dnt need to know. You wasn't at the scene when it happened so don't investigate the crime. They are not certified forensic scientist...lol
@firsttimedaddy personally my bd and I broke up before I found out I was pregnant. He wanted me to abort and I refused. He's chosen to not be involved. @Elle_baby I haven't gone off on anyone YET lol I wanna be like a woman who has a man staring at her chest and be like "ummm my eyes are up here!" The comments get annoying sometimes too like "ur belly is getting big." Well no sh*t! What do u expect when someone is pregnant! god only knows what ill do when people start touching me! How far along are you?
Ha I'm getting that too b/c I'm preggo by my bd/ex and he has a girlfriend right now (which also might be preggo-something I heard from the grapevine) I just look at em like who what the baby daddy gon be I ain't a whore like I just got a relationship and I'm preggo common sense says its the ex if you know how I am plus if I'm fat already common sense really says oh it's the same BD
@firsttimemommy omg that's his I was with my daughter I even had someone say "Dang Lorna you getting fat!" I was just like "Nah really I'm pregnant! When have you ever seen me with a gut or pooch?!" And towards the end I really ead getting snappy with EVERYONE I cussed out my teacher and I never cuss out teachers or in front of even no matter how much I dislike em because I respect em but get hormones is all I can say
@zbutt_mom I can usually be more self controlled at work and things like that but its been so hard! Maybe its a girl thing? You said u were like that with ur daughter and im having a girl. Too much estrogen? Lol
@firsttimemommy711 omgsh idk how ur dealing with that lol. So not looking forward to that at all! I am 16 weeks+ 5days and u? Touching is a VERY annoying thing. Two days ago some lady kept touching me to get my attention and I moved bt she continued then I simply told her, "I don't like being touched". Is it us being hormonal or people just being so annoying and us calling them out? Lol.
@Zbutt_Mom Wow that must suck : ( truthfully it does feel like they are calling us whores when they ask. Sadly most people lack common sense ; )
Haha that could be or and yeah I'm not one to go off really unless you really take me there but with her it was just like the slightest things tripped me out Ha I stayed trouble free until my senior year of high school when I was preggo I never been to the office that many times Ha I think the funniest one was a lady telling me I can't go to the restroom like lady I'm pregnant you have something anything on to yo bladder and have someone tell you you can't go pee like move out my way I had an extreme short fuse with my daughter
@elle_baby ha yeah A LOT of ppl do lack common sense sadly if get mad b/c I feel offend like excuse me if you really wanna know my sex life my blunt of extremely low so of you dony know don't worry just say congrats on the baby and keep it moving Also the touching belly without asking or staring is SUPER annoying like o don't wanna be touched am I touching all on you invading yo space no in not so geri out of my private space ppl I scotland stand came up touching me like awe how far are you like gon you fake b**ch weren't you just talking ish about me etc
Ha I told her I'll pee on her cuz she ead in the door or I'll pee in her trash can @firsttimemommy Shr wasn't even the real teacher which made me even more upset I ran into the real teacher on my way to the restroom ha
Hahahhaha oh this makes me feel so much better knowing its not just me flipping out over nothing. This is the time we also see fake people being even more fake! Idk what I will do when I get to that point! :-S @Zbutt_Mom
Just smile ha that's all I could do b/c if I said what I truly wanted to say it would've been drama so just smile abs be fake back after the baby they go back to their ways and ever now and then ask about the baby
People that never been pregnant think we make up the whole hormone thing lol. They will never know what we go through, they think its a walk in the park. Oh well! :-D
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@FirstTimeDaddy Well even when I was with bd I still hated it. If they have to ask that means they aren't that close to u to know who u been with therefor its none of their business & if they know the guy then they would most likely know who it is too right? Its just mainly people asking things that is none of their business. Like they don't talk to u for months and all of a sudden you get a ... "who is the daddy" from them. Its plain rude and nosey lol.
@Elle_baby I haven't gone off on anyone YET lol I wanna be like a woman who has a man staring at her chest and be like "ummm my eyes are up here!" The comments get annoying sometimes too like "ur belly is getting big." Well no sh*t! What do u expect when someone is pregnant! god only knows what ill do when people start touching me! How far along are you?
I just look at em like who what the baby daddy gon be I ain't a whore like I just got a relationship and I'm preggo common sense says its the ex if you know how I am plus if I'm fat already common sense really says oh it's the same BD
@Zbutt_Mom Wow that must suck : ( truthfully it does feel like they are calling us whores when they ask. Sadly most people lack common sense ; )
Ha I stayed trouble free until my senior year of high school when I was preggo I never been to the office that many times
Ha I think the funniest one was a lady telling me I can't go to the restroom like lady I'm pregnant you have something anything on to yo bladder and have someone tell you you can't go pee like move out my way I had an extreme short fuse with my daughter
Also the touching belly without asking or staring is SUPER annoying like o don't wanna be touched am I touching all on you invading yo space no in not so geri out of my private space ppl I scotland stand came up touching me like awe how far are you like gon you fake b**ch weren't you just talking ish about me etc
Shr wasn't even the real teacher which made me even more upset I ran into the real teacher on my way to the restroom ha