I don't want this to sound like rubbing salt in the wound that is not my intention. Just think he didn't just choose his family over you he choose them over your baby too. Don't just give up he obviously doesn't want to be involved if he's going to give up you and your baby. Don't even think about giving the baby to him once its born you would never be able to live with yourself. This baby is depending on you and you will have each other. That baby is also a piece of that man and always will be.
It will be okay....cry out to the Lord....my bf of four years left me, I'm 33 weeks pregnant and have a two year old....he not only left me and our kids, but to be with a women with kids....so its always can be worst....never say he was ur reason for living bc we as women put so much into these men that we then loose ourselves. Use this as an opportunity to prove to him that you and you guys baby is number one, he will soon realize that his child is most important.....if not then use him leaving as strength to do right by your child and give him/her all the love you can.
I needed that too Bianca he left me n never told his fam I was prego they asked me on fb was it his I'm like yeah I just feel left alone,by myself hurt n depressed
I agree with bianca. This baby is your reason to live. I don't feel god gives ppl things they can't handle. My daughters father flipped out and made it clears as day he want nothing to do woth me or our baby. And I'm positive he has said nothing about me or this baby. I have a four year old with special needs and soon will have lil sophia. I believe if i can do this and pull through you can too. You just have to find a good support system fam frinds even ppl on here. You'll be ok.
You can do this... keep your head up Ma. Some families are absolutely off their rocker stupid. I would write them and tell them that what they just did is unexcusable and how would they feel if you were their daughter. It takes two to tango. He needs to share this responsibility w you. So angry for you!
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