so upset.

MaKaylyns_Mommy

I know I should not feel this way but I really do.. I really wanted to have a baby boy but insted I got another girl. I took the intelligender test and it said we were having a boy the babys heart rate was 135 to 140. I was told that im carrying really low by my docotr. Im so confused. Why is everything leading to boy but they doctor said It's a girl? Should I go have a 2nd ultrasound somewhere else? And how can I not feel this way anymore?

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MunecaLinda

Mama_kat is right, it is more accurate and Id trust your doctor before the intelligender. But you know what boy or girl, its your child Mom! Be happy and thank god its healthy, maybe youll be blessed with a boy next time. ;-)

MaKaylyns_Mommy

@Mama_Kat thank you for replying I know the ultrasound is alot more accurate but I thought the lower the heart rate that ment boy. I just feel really let down I will love the baby no matter what. *hugs*

MaKaylyns_Mommy

@munecalinda this will be my last my husband don't want anymore I know its my baby I will love more then.life. it will be no different then my other 2 girls I think what is most bothering me is " teen age years" oh man.

MaKaylyns_Mommy

Lol thank you ladies you made me feel alot better

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MunecaLinda

I know, I remember being a teen, bless my mom. But in the end it brings you guys closer. Look at it this way, 3 daughters means a bigger chance of a grandson! And I bet you'll be an awesome grandmother to him ;-) keep your head up love.

KaycieNTN

Do not ever go by the heartbeat!!!! That isn't accurate and I have seen lots of patients get disappointed after putting too much faith in the heartrate!!!

littlemami

The way you carry has to do with your body type and muscles (they relax more after your first child).