Reason For My Tactics, Bashing and Judgements

JunnaBuggBaby

Before you decide to say "HEY GET OFF THE FORUM". Take this into consideration, I have another account yet you guys will never know who I am because I am not the person I portray myself to be. I dont mean half the things I have said nor have I meant them. In my first account I noticed that no matter what discussion it was someone was always pointing fingers in it, saying "Why are you being judgmental, why are you bashing, you should take peoples feelings into consideration blah blah blah the works" Only if someone didnt agree with their viewpoint and announced it with reasoning. This happened on more than one occasion.

I got fed up with it when I put my input on one comment (not on this account by the way) and someone accused me of bashing and that they would report me for simply dissagreeing. And when I posted a comment (this time as JunaBuggBaby) I was again accused and jumped on for simply stating an opinion on 2 seperate occasions one by @mama0811 and another by @squrit299.

I got annoyed with the fact that people are hypocrits and I hate the fact that they play victim on the forum and accuse everyone of not being friendly. As for the moderator who addressed me, I found @Mama_kat to be rude. Be a moderator if your going to be one. MESSAGE ME in a private message if you have something to address and dont post it on someones comment. Your only instigating the problem further, and your giving the one person who had a problem in the beginning for no reason satisfaction which is not fair either. Your not being a moderator your being just as bad as I am. As for the name calling... nice moderating.

It got annoying and sooo i reeked havoc on the place.

So now you know. Dont take things to heart, and point fingers because THIS is what you cause.

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Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

ashes

By the time I got to the second line, I couldn't take you seriously anymore. It's extremely immature that you have two accounts, one for "bashing and judging" and one for legitimate responses.

starrxoxo9

Oh so you're just a phony?? SHOCKER.......

Kateee10

REAL mature darlin' (: Taking it all the way back to high-school. Good for you!

starrxoxo9

Lmao @Kateee10

lucky7

PLEASE EVERYONE IGNORE HER!!!

cheryl74

WTF lmao grow up

marriedwith_4

I believe the main thing is play nice! We r all grown women(or pretend to be) so we should act accordingly. It's fine to state ur opinion but do just that STATE UR OPINION! Don't bash, criticize n down others because of the way they feel. It's their feelings not urs. I think we all open to advice or we wouldn't be here but if ur down looking for a pick me up I don't think u would want anyone to continue kicking back down instead of giving u a hand to get up........ JUST MY OPINION

JunnaBuggBaby

Well its the truth. And thats my reason for it, everyone points fingers and is judgmental and then wants to play the role of Moderator and tell people how to speak only when they dont agree. This sight is called sugar coat its called a forum.

[Deleted User]

honestly I see what you are saying...but in the end what was accomplished? I feel like there could have been a more mature tactful approach.

I personally agreed with your opinion on squirts post, but you presented your opinion in a very tasteless manor.

But you were not the only one out of line too. I owe you an apology bc my anger got the best of me. n the mist of me trying to defend someone from a bully I.became one. And for that I'm sorry.

Jess_Jude

You are so immature I feel sorry for your child! You need to stop spending so much time criticizing others and start spending more time analyzing yourself! And as a mother think about what you just stated!! "Because this is what you caused" seriously I pray your children are not raised with the idea that for being rude and getting in trouble they can cause havoc because its what you caused! You have pissed me off you sound just like a selfish self-centered bitch! There is your name calling for you! When you post your stupid immature comments you should realize that your commenting on someone's life! You need to stop playing idiotic games and grow up already because your sounding like a freshman in high school!

JunnaBuggBaby

@marriedwith_3 I completely agree with you, and at first thats what I would do, I would state my opinion and let them know that im not judging and I would give them my advice in a respectful manner. But it seems that no matter how you go about doing that here everyone takes it as bashing, judging being rude, im not 5 years old and you arent my moderator. Continue the discussion instead of jumping on my comment though!

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JunnaBuggBaby

@NewMommy_NavyWife Im not asking for an apology or sympathy. I just want you guys to understand why Ive been going about it this way. I could have said what I had to say on squrits post a little lighter but even if I went about it the way I did, why bother jumping on me?? Thats something I continue to see on this forum and its frustrating.

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starrxoxo9

So instead of just letting go of the fact that people don't get what you're saying, you create a second account just to act like an @$$hole?? Why not just chalk it up to people not agreeing with you, and move on???? You're going out of your way to stoop to their level, which makes no sense...

HUPE23_1

Lmao haha it was very intertaining but ya could have been nicer

JunnaBuggBaby

@Mama_kat it isnt a problem with any one specific person because Im not in middle school or grade school for that matter. Its the general problem of people pointing fingers, So who cares if someone states an opinion, let them be! And YES the other comments were TO start problems and havoc not because its how I truly felt.

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I didn't jump on you until you took it yo the point of jumping on her wall calling her a pussy and a whore.....

Which at that point you were no longer starting an opinion but being a bully.

natashalynn

I understand where you're coming from, but two wrongs don't make a right. While I can feel your frustration I also feel there are better ways to deal with it. (Ie ignore it) I also believe you know that you were not in the ,right, otherwise you wouldn't of made a secondary account.
I sincerely hope the rest of your pregnancy is wonderful and stress free simply for the sake of yourself and your babe!
Cheers
:x

JunnaBuggBaby

@starxoxo9 No your not understanding, its not people getting what im saying or agreeing with me. Its the fact that in every discussion someone who DOES NOT AGREE gets pointed at as "the bad guy". And being judgmental, is it really necessary, and then to start posts about it to continue the problem?? Thats why Mrs Del Rae erased so many posts that day. Because it wasnt me continuing the problem another user was and I was taken back by it. Also This was my First account. I made a second shortly after this.

jcmommy

I do not know about any of those post but who are these ladies to you? They do not pay your bills nor benefit you in any way. Why are you so worried about what anyone has to say? You need to let it go and worry about yourself and not anyone on here.

ashes

Can we just delete this/op already?

marriedwith_4

But its called filtering! Even as adults we still must learn to do that. U can't always say what comes to mind. Yes I do think some of the things u said were out of line, but like @newmommy_navywife said u wasn't the only one. I took the bigger approach n stayed clear of the post. Which sometimes u have to do. Personally I forgive u but u didn't do anything to me. I hope a lot of women can do the same (which I doubt from there post) this is not the end of the world..... Just move on, apologize n don't look back

JunnaBuggBaby

@NewMommy_NavyWife It didnt bother me that you did at that point, only because I knew that at that point I was out of line. Im a woman too and I know what to say and when to say and what shouldnt be said. The fact that she called me a bitch and then decided to tell a moderator I was stating my opinion on her disscussion ticked me off and the havoc began.

JunnaBuggBaby

Again, Im not apologizing, asking for forgiveness or sympathy. Just letting you guys know that nothing that was said should be taken to heart. I didnt mean any of it, especially the one about overweight mothers because I am over weight myself. I used to be a size 16 and went down to a 9. Im just letting you know definitely NOT the person who was portrayed and I hope that NO one in reality is in deed that way.

jojo30

It's not what you say but how you say it. You have come across as rude even if you didn't mean to. Your personal attack on squirt was childish and wrong I hope you apologise to her. You do seem to have strong opinions that's not bad the way u put it across is.

Boho_Chic

I think what you did was very childish. But I understand your disposition. I agree this forum has totally transformed to a place where you can not speak your mind, nor disagree with someone. I feel the moderators aren't qualified to moderate. If a discussion gets heated, that's just the way things go. Its a part of being in the real world people agree, and disagree and others get nasty. Don't take it personal, you don't know what's behind these screan names. Instead of deleting or closing the discussion, deflection is in order. Moderators should deflect and resolve not shut it down. This is like elementry school. I do agree that if something is too out of line or clearly a direct insult it should be removed. but honestly there should be more divisions here with difined clear seperations of the topics. Some topics shouldbe labeled for the mature. I have run into more simple minded people here than ever. Fortunately I know how to handle it, but everyone can't. And when you have a place with 15year oldsand 35 year olds, the brains and mindsets of the younger group have not even been fully exposed in orderto reach their max potential and development. It makes this place hard to navigate.

mommyto1soontob2

Wow just grow up all the pregnancy emotions takin to far. Lifes a beach jus play in the sand forreal. Virtual hard core punks is what ppl try to be. I hope the children are better mannered than this. I jus wounder how old you really are cause ur acting 12