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soon2bedaddy

My fiance doesn't care about me anymore..She's like 5 weeks pregnant and I think she's going to leave me .. She acts like a totally different person now. I don't even know who she is anymore:((

three_cats_n_a_baby

Hey don't worry. U need to talk to her but as i am five weeks too, my boobs feel like they have been used as punch bags i am tired un. Sociable and prob neglecting my husband too but foot worry its just a strain and we put things more into perspective too, ie i don't want to waste a penny now. Just stay supportive and pay an interest in baby. Good luck x

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I doubt that she's going to leave u. Just remember that she's pregnant and her body is going through a lot of changes. Being pregnant and carrying a child is hard work. Bare with her, when her second trimester starts, things should get better.

marriedwith_4

SHE'S PREGNANT ! It's the hormones. Just last night I cried n told my husband that I hate him n I know hedoesn't care about me cuz he wouldn't go to the store @ 10pm to get me watermelon...... We go thru a lot n its not our fault. Just try to love her when she wanna be loved, stay clear when she don't. N be very supportive when she need it

three_cats_n_a_baby

Should say don't worry not foot! Dam phone lol

ashes

It may seem like it but I highly doubt she will leave you. My bf thought the exact same things. I was really pushing him away now that I look back on it, but at the time I was just dealing with my own thing, being newly pregnant. Those first changes are really hard on a woman. My bf gave me my space and I finally came around. Like I said I had no idea I was doing it until after the fact, 20/20 hindsight.

vette_devil

Its hormones honey, hang in there! I'm almost 20 weeks w/our 2nd baby & my hormones barely bothered me the first time, but this time they make me feel like I'm losing my mind! I am usually the most laid-back, grounded chick ever, and yesterday my hubby cracked some joke about how talking about money was about as comfortable as it would be to tell me he's cheated! He never has, but I THOUGHT he was trying to tell me he had & I started bawling uncontrollably!!!... poor guy was bewildered & had no clue why I was crying! Lol... sure made for a good laugh later.
What I'm saying is hang in there- you will get your girl back when the hormones level out. good luck!

soon2bedaddy

I really hope the hormones level out soon!! I miss her, I wish we could just both be ourselves and be excited for the baby, but I know it can't be like that.. I just wish it could. She's the love of my life and I would never leave her, I hope you guys are right and its just hormones .

vette_devil

They 'should' start to level out by week 13 or 14, when she starts her 2nd trimester... I say it that way because obviously all women and all pregnancies are different. Just hang in there & try to stay positive & supportive for her. And try to keep the lines of communication open with light, cheerful topics.

SamiUK

Omg my hormones are so bad i keep stopping over at my mams cos i cant stand being near him then the other morning at 2am i text him to say i really missed him so he drove the 30 mins to come get me i hugged him then when we got home he went to cuddle me in bed n i told him to f**k of cos i hated him haha i do really feel sorry for you blokes sometimes lol

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