miscarrage and how to tell our son..

peeshanay

I was about 13 weeks and we already told our 4 year old. He's been so excited. He was always trying to feel the baby and hear the baby, even tho it was too early. But I'm going through a miscarrage and we don't know how to tell him. Do any of you have any suggestions? I could use the input please.

PebblesMommy

I'm so sorry.
Do you believe in heaven? Maybe you could explain to him that his little brother or sister already went to live in heaven so they won't be coming to live with you after all.

3boysandcounting

We were 18 weeks when I had our miscarriage and my 3 boys were so excited about another sibling so that was sooo hard. We told them that the baby had went to heaven and God had bigger plans for the baby and that everything would be ok. They of course had questions like why but we just explained the best we could. Sorry for your loss.

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peeshanay

Thank you everyone for your help. I really do appreciate it.