FOR THE RECORD...
I was in no way intending to bash anyone, hurt anyone's feelings or put anyone down. If my brutal honesty was offensive then I apologize.
It just sucks that when someone goes against the grain with good intentions, it's ALWAYS taken the wrong way on this forum.
I'm beginning to understand why people end up lashing out and leaving.
It just sucks that when someone goes against the grain with good intentions, it's ALWAYS taken the wrong way on this forum.
I'm beginning to understand why people end up lashing out and leaving.
Comments
I'm sorry too. I understand you had good intentions, the way you said it was hurtful though. It doesn't justify my reaction but I was offended by some of the things you said not only to me but to others. Again, I'm sorry.
Let's move on?
@starrxoxo9 No good deed goes unpunished.
I suppose all of you who aren't satisfied with my apology never said anything in the heat of the moment without putting a lot of thought behind it. While you mock the title of my post in the suggestion.
I've about had it with this forum.
On a lighter note I have a feeling a lot (two words, @luvmy5 that does not mean I will give up text speak tho my phone actually tells me that is one word who am I to argue with apple lol)of us will know about what @wilsomom is going thru in about say what 14 years for me. But she has let it go so I will to. No, I was not involved but I knew how bad that would hurt someone and I am not the person that turns their cheek ever.
@luvmy5 After having time to cool down I can see where my comments would have bothered you. I always work on the assumption there are exception to every rule. You made a go of the hand you were dealt and thats great, but you are the exception not the rule. My sister had a baby at 19 and my mom has him. She had another at 24 still not a good mom by our standards at all but tries a little harder. An example would be her deciding to break her not 2 year old of a sippy cup while he was very sick with this tummy bug going around. Or my mom giving him ice cream because he kept it down and my sister flying off when she found out. If a baby is sick imo you give him what he will keep in his belly and worry about nutrition when he is better. she listens to know one my mom told her to let him have it he needs something or he would end up in the hospital (she has raised four). The baby did get dehydrated bc she would not allow the things that were staying in. I have seen my nephew (6) cry bc his mom wants his brother and not him, and my mom if can not leave the two alone for fear that the baby will get hurt out of jealousy.
I can set differences aside bc u didn't know all that and I don't know all of ur story. From what I do know you have down the best you can and thats was a lot.
Ps english was not ever nor will it ever be a strong suit for me. I am past caring, when I was in school my english major sister wanted to cry over the corrects she made on my papers. Lol Its all about math and chemistry here.lol
I've hardly said 2 words on this forum in months so idk what you're referring to.
To everyone else, she's apologized, I've apologized, and we were the ones really into it. We've both moved on, and everyone else should too. Give her some slack, and let's let this thing go, ok?
Just my opinion.
And this is NOT directed at anyone. I love u ALL. Lol