well... I'm single
I was planning on just getting Josh's truck when tax time came and giving him the money from the kids to get a pick up. Well my mom said I should see if I can get a better car than just settling for his. I told him and he said we can all go to hell and he will see me in court. I didn't try to fight for him bc it's always me trying to keep him and he drops me like it's nothing. All I did was tell him what mom said and that it made sense. So to me, his "love"wasn't true and that he just wanted money. He said he loves me with his heart and soul last night and the second things don't go his way, he's gone? We've been together 3 years and have two beautiful babies together. It sucks bc I love him and it's the holidays but I shouldn't fight for someone that's willing to drop me over money. What do y'all think? We've been doing so good but his true colors came out and I'm glad I saw it now even though I'm sad. :-(
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To me it sounds like you aren't that hurt (not to sound rude) just like you really ARE over it
@Math_Mommy Yes, he's not very mature at all. He's 22 and I'm 24 but we definitely act different. We (him included), often thought he was bi-polar. He would be happy the smallest thing would happen and he'd be livid. And yes, he seems like all he cares about is himself. If he didn't, then me possibly getting a car other than his, wouldn't cause him to leave me.
@Roxy I agree with you. I know he doesn't do drugs because his job does randoms once a week but his behavior is really sketchy. I wish it wasn't this way but it's not something I can change in him. Trust me, I've tried. I've walked on eggshells to make that man happy and still, he finds something wrong with me. By far I am not perfect but I am a good girlfriend and great mother. I mean, I've pointed out the negative things about him in this post and there are tons of good things but it's just hard to notice those when the crappy stuff is outweighing the rest. *sigh*