ADVICE NEEDED..........
long story short I notice my wine bottle missing my sister and mother are the only ones that have been at my house besides my husband but any ways my mom or sister would go to my house to baby sit my son so I figured my sis would take it I send a text to sister sry for bad language
ME: hey
SISTER: hey sissy
ME: u take my wine bottle
SISTER:yea
ME:y
no response
ME: Dnt want u ever at my house again I hope it was worth it
SISTER:Omg u act like I take other shit it was just a bottle like ur gonna drink
ME:Wtf r u serious u took my shit wtf is ur problem u think u can just take people's shit
SISTER:Cause I was n depression mood
I left it like that ladies I'm hurt like not because over a wine bottle but really I can't trust her at all any more I feel betrayed do u guys think I'm over reacting how do I know she hasn't took anything eles and for her to think its OK she never even said she was sry I'm so done with her
ME: hey
SISTER: hey sissy
ME: u take my wine bottle
SISTER:yea
ME:y
no response
ME: Dnt want u ever at my house again I hope it was worth it
SISTER:Omg u act like I take other shit it was just a bottle like ur gonna drink
ME:Wtf r u serious u took my shit wtf is ur problem u think u can just take people's shit
SISTER:Cause I was n depression mood
I left it like that ladies I'm hurt like not because over a wine bottle but really I can't trust her at all any more I feel betrayed do u guys think I'm over reacting how do I know she hasn't took anything eles and for her to think its OK she never even said she was sry I'm so done with her
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And also listen to what she has to say. If she really had to steal the bottle because she was depressed then there's obviously a bigger problem here...,
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THANK YOU ALL FOR UR ADVICE. THIS STILL DOESN'T CHANGE MY MIND ON HOW I FEEL. MAYBE CAUSE I KNOW HER AND WAT I HAVE DONE FOR HER TO HELP HER. ITS MORE THAT SHE TOOK FROM MY HOUSE. THIS CHANGES THINGS ALOT ALL MY LIFE LIVING IN MY MOMS HOUSE EVERY ONE WOULD ALWAYS GET INTO MY THINGS OR STEAL FROM ME. IT MIGHT OF NOT BEEN THE MOST EXPENSIVE STUFF BUT THEY WERE MY THINGS. IT DESTROYED ME WHEN I GOT OLDER NOW I DNT AND CANT TRUST PEOPLE WITH MY STUFF. AND TO GO THREW THIS AGAIN WITH HER. WERE NOT KIDS ANY MORE SHES A GROWN WOMEN. THIS JUST DNT SEEM RIGHT TO ME. HER SAYING SHE WAS DEPRESSION THERES NO EXCUSE TO WHAT SHE DID. IF SHE WASN'T STEALING IT THEN Y SHE HAD TO HIDE IT SO I CANT SEE IT. THANK U LADIES FOR UR ADVICE
In that case, i would still talk to her and tell her why it upset you so much that she took the bottle. Like said before, the actual bottle is not the problem, the problem is that she stole the bottle. You need to tell her about your problem with people stealing from you in the past and how that affects you now so that she can understand you and why you feel the way you do. She might already know that this happened to you, but until you express to her how this has affected you she will continue thinking its not a big deal (the way we were also thinking). Only way to fix this is communication.