My two year old is so clingy!!!!
She follows me
To the bathroom, downstairs,
anywhere and everywhere I go!
I had a dr appt this morning and
Had no choice but to take her. I don't have family or many friends where I live. She was fussy and throwing fits most of the time. He cried a good amount of my visit as well for no apparent reason. When I'm scolding her I tap her butt bc I'm not going to beat her obviously....and she screams bloody murder as if I actually hit her and hurt her. She's become over dramatic. She used to be independent before I was pregnant. My nine year old has her good days and then she has that one bad day where her attitude is so shitty and she talks back a good potion of the day. She's mean to her sister, but this has been an ongoing thing for a good year or so. She's improved a bit but it drives me nuts. I've caught her hitting my little one or telling her to shut up. She's always expressed since day one that she likes her other sister better and that her other sister is cuter. Her other sister is her dad's daughter which I am no longer with. I'm married to someone else and my little one and the one I'm expecting, are my husbands. I think she was an only child for so long, 7 years that she sometimes is resentful. That among other things. Lastly I'm tired of my daughters grandma....ex mom, telling me how huge I am and how I've "blown up" it makes me want to be rude. Vent over.
To the bathroom, downstairs,
anywhere and everywhere I go!
I had a dr appt this morning and
Had no choice but to take her. I don't have family or many friends where I live. She was fussy and throwing fits most of the time. He cried a good amount of my visit as well for no apparent reason. When I'm scolding her I tap her butt bc I'm not going to beat her obviously....and she screams bloody murder as if I actually hit her and hurt her. She's become over dramatic. She used to be independent before I was pregnant. My nine year old has her good days and then she has that one bad day where her attitude is so shitty and she talks back a good potion of the day. She's mean to her sister, but this has been an ongoing thing for a good year or so. She's improved a bit but it drives me nuts. I've caught her hitting my little one or telling her to shut up. She's always expressed since day one that she likes her other sister better and that her other sister is cuter. Her other sister is her dad's daughter which I am no longer with. I'm married to someone else and my little one and the one I'm expecting, are my husbands. I think she was an only child for so long, 7 years that she sometimes is resentful. That among other things. Lastly I'm tired of my daughters grandma....ex mom, telling me how huge I am and how I've "blown up" it makes me want to be rude. Vent over.
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My little sister can be a pain in the a**. She makes my daughter sooooooo hyper and she dont listen when you tell her to stop. She is the definition of a problem child. Lol.
Is it possible to take breaks for a few mins at a time? I know its bad but when I was living on my own with my daughter I didnt have much help only maybe twice a week if I was lucky. When she'd take her naps id set her pillows and blankets up on the couch in the living room and id go out on the balcony and open the blinds so I can see her and id take a 5 - 15 min smoke break (it was a small apartment and the door to the balcony was in the living
room.) Im not encouraging you to smoke at all im just saying it was the only thing I had that was my alone "me" time. Maybe go outside and get some air once in a while or have a glass of wine?
@mommylovessparkle
I wish I could have a glass of wine or a beer or something with alcohol!! I need it for when I get frustrated. I can't get alone time for sh!t. I can't even use the bathroom without one of my kids or both together following me in there too. They have their own room that they share yet they always end up in mine. I also don't know how I'm going to do it. It's nice to get a break. I can't even take a shower alone. It's so annoying!!!