Friend wants to....
So my friend lives with her MIL, she doesn't like her too much. They have a lot of issues. I had told her a few months ago she could stay for a little bit with me if needed. Well today she asked if she could move in. I'm almost 35 weeks. I'm getting closer to popping and to be quite honest idk if I want anyone staying with me now. I didn't mind before months back but now that I'm almost due I would just like my peace and quiet. She has a 2 month old and a 1 yr old. Idk if I can handle 2 more kids besides my 2 tht I already have. Idk where she would sleep besides my futon in my living room and where she would put her sons crib. I have a two bedroom and am not going to boot my kids out of their room and not to b a B but I'm not giving up my room either. I think she would help with food but that's it. I feel terrible bc I'm just not sure what to say. She wants to move in/stay with me starting tomorrow.
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@jules she's a friend but not someone I would consider a good friend. I haven't known her for long. Since July of this past year so that's why it feels a little harder to say no bc if it was a good friend I know they would understand and wouldn't be offended
@jules yes I totally agree with u! She was trying to put her two cents about the way my husband and I got married and i told her it's not about the glitz and glamour!! She basically said that it wasn't good enough. Tht her and her bf had thought about it but that it wasn't nice enough in so many words. I was annoyed!