18 weeks any tips on how to make things work with daddy?
Im 20 I live in miami. Ugh me and my boyfriend just are not getting along and its putting stress on me.... he has trust issues I have no clue why. I just want things to work out so we can have our own perfect family (the one I never had) Help petty pls
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I recently went out and bought myself a baby book. Even though I already know most of the information within it I found it comforting just to read other people's experiences. I bought my husband one as well, picking one on the humorous side. He recently devoured it in about 2 days time, and it's helped him to identify some of the emotions that have been bugging him about baby. We discussed some of his concerns, excitements and feelings about it and since then we've gone back to normal.
Maybe your man is having trouble figuring out how he feels about this whole thing, maybe he doesn't know what these emotions are. It's important to be open and honest with one another. But it's also important to remember you cannot help anyone who doesn't want to be helped. If it comes down to it and you've done everything you can then know that it wasn't your fault. Some men really just can't leave boyhood behind, and you shouldn't have to Mommy man and baby. Just try to be open and compassionate towards him, yelling will get you no where.
Best of wishes (sorry this was so long!) to you and yours!