Is it the end of the world? Nope just feels like it. any one else have a suprise bundel of joy?
Went to the doc on the 7th of Jan. For an antibiotic due to I did not want to have a snotty nose at the wedding. Got married the 12th. Went back on the 18th to get my next BC shot and doc said surprise. My poor husband looked like Saten himself had just said it! I burst into tears. I took the shot so we could wait on kids. Doc said I was 6 weeks. Family did not take it well. His family called me a tramp. Mine went ballistic about responsability. Once the shock wears off we will be fine.....I think.
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I was with a guy 4 years took my bc the same way (late some days, skip a day here and there) never got pregnant. Thank god though b/c he was an ass lol.
Got with my HS sweetheart that I've been friends with for 7 years...exactly 6 months later BAM preggers.
I just don't want people thinking I'm a whore... I was the talk of my town for a while, for like 9-10 months. It just blew over now I'm going to be the new gossip again...yay...
Fast forward five years, I'm in a similar situation again. I have been living with my now husband for three years, and I find out that I am pregnant yet again. We talked about it and realized that we wanted this child. More importantly that we can raise her, and give her all that she will need. We had to do alot of life changes, but we have been supportive of eachother, and understand eachothers' needs and desires.
I know it is not my son's fault for pushing me and my first husband apart (because it would of happened sooner or later) it helped me open my eyes to just how incompatible we were (I'm not going to go ex bashing because it is neither here nor there at this point) for eachother, this baby has actually strenghtened my relationship with my husband. But we are more willing to listen and understand eachothers' thoughts and stresses and also expectations of what needs to get done, everything from what bill gets paid from whose income to who does the dishes. If one of us feels ill then the other is understanding that they may have to cook dinner that night, husbands often have pregnacy sympathy pains so you are not nessarly suffering alone.
What I am saying is make sure you guys are open to eachother's thoughts and feelings if you guys are both stong and willing to stand by eachother then nothing can harm you. Just make sure you guys are comunicating in positive ways, it will be hard for you with your *wonderful* new hormones not to snap at him everytime he leaves a towel on the floor, or whatever happens to upset you at the moment. But let him know once you cool down that you didn't mean to be so snippish, and make sure he knows how you are feeling. Guys tend not to understand these things.
Your family is right a baby is alot of responcibility and forces you to grow up very fast, (added on top of a brand new marrage!) I don't know how old you two are but I'm sure there was a reson you guys decided to wait. His family should know better then to be calling names, antiboitics + BC tend not to mix, and even if you just forgot to take it you are not a tramp you are the wife of their son, not to mention provider of grandchild. Ask your husband to talk to his family, it will make things easier on all of you. If they can not get over the fact focus on maintaining the relationship with your husband and do your best to brush them [his family] to the side. Easier said then done I know, but you do what is best for your new family.
I think things will be fine.....you love him....chose him as your husband....even though you guys planned on waiting.....a baby is a blessing and everything happens for a reason!!! Try not to stress!
Simple solution.....dont let the door hit u on the butt on ur way out...me and my baby are a packaged 2 for 1 deal not sold seperately