goodbye nov moms

PranallaPranalla
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Had my first check up and u/s today and there was no heartbeat. The doctor said all measurements indicated the heart stopped within the past week. I am struggling with the news...this is the first miscarriage in my family. Still have to decide if I will do the d&c or just wait for mother nature which the doctor thinks could take weeks.

I just have to keep telling myself that I didn't do anything wrong, the doctor was really insistent that I remember that.

Comments

  • sands3sands3
    I'm so sorry!
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
  • mommyo3soon2b4mommyo3soon2b4
    I am so so sorry...thoughts and prayers with you.
  • sunshinelovesunshinelove
    :( <3 I hope everything gets better
  • lil_bit17lil_bit17
    praying for you hun! stay strong! I just got the same news on Monday. I was 12 weeks along and had a d&c that night. It was just too much for me to handle. You are doing the right thing on telling yourself it's not your fault....cause it isnt! This was my first baby and first miscarrige in my family as well. We will be trying for another little one in about 3 months. Just remember that miscarriages are very common and most women can go on with having normal happy pregnancie in the future =)
  • PranallaPranalla
    Thanks for the positive thoughts. Its amazing how much virtual hugs help!

    @lil_bit17 (hugs) maybe we'll meet again in 3 months! Good luck!
  • momof22bemomof22be
    I'm so sorry girl I hope u start feeling better soon. :(
  • lil_bit17lil_bit17
    @pranalla thanks girl! If you need anything or have any questions feel free to write me :X
  • starrxoxo9starrxoxo9
    :( hang in there!!
  • KrazymomofAdrianKrazymomofAdrian
    To both of you. Good luck with your next ones. You both are strong.
  • Tanners_MommyTanners_Mommy
    So sorry honey I lost my son when I was 27 weeks and it was first in my family hang in there honey. It will take some time just stay strong. If you don't mind me asking how far along were you?
    @pranalla
  • PranallaPranalla
    I was 8 weeks 4 days today.
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