need someone to talk to please

teenmommy23teenmommy23
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
my dad just asked me if im pregnant he started yelling i kept saying no no no , no he said tomorrow my moms taking me to get a blood test , and if im pregnant im going to get an abortion or he is kicking me out..... ugh dont know what to do
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  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    Why is he thinkin you are? Whats mom sayin?
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    What gave it away?? Do you have family around you??
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    If you want your baby them keep your baby you would never forgive yourself If you didn't keep him our her no matter what
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    im 18 and 6 weeks today , ive been napping alot ,an peeing like 4 /5 times a night thats not usual for me .
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    Where do you live like state?
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    i want to keep my baby i really do , as for having some where else perminate to live i dont thonk so , :(
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    california
  • Mommyy2BeMommyy2Be
    Dang Thats Messed Up, && Can Yu Go Live Other Places???
    && If Yu Go To The Abortion Place Yu Will Make Them Look Stupid Because Yu Are 18 && Yu Don't Have To Get An Abortion If Yu Don't Want Too @ teenmommy23
  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    Keep your blessing. That baby is a blessing from God.
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    im not sure if i have somewhere else to live but i reall dont want to have an abortion , i really dont . my mom didnt say much , i thinj she already knew and was wairing for me to tell her
  • a1kyndriaa1kyndria
    If you are loking for alternatives womens clinics or a welfare office can ad you if home life doesn't work out. Don't worry about what others think even those close to u right now u r lucky to have a new piece of u comin into the world and u new to plan for the 2 of u no one else. Congradulations and good luck...
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    Just what mommyy2 be said...your 18! Screw them and that sucks your all the way across the country lol I'm in md

    Why don't you go somewhere temp for now and then figure it all out as it goes take it one step at a time
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    You're making it worse by lying. Is there a way where you can sit them down and rationally talk to them about how you would like to keep this baby and will provide for the baby the best way you can, but would like to stay where you are at because its the safest place til you get on your feet. Maybe if you can prove you can be responsible for this new being, they will come around.
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    i so want to keep my baby more than anything , im so so blessed but i think my dad really will kick me out . if not yet he will in 2 months right after graduation . yes my babys dad is involved not the very suoportist but is here for me . im not going to go threw with the abortion i wont do that to mysrlf . but goodness i dont want to stress myself out for the babies sake but i need to figure something out asap
  • holliholli
    Pray and keep doing it. That baby is a blessing
  • rose_town_mommyrose_town_mommy
    What part of cali.? Its prob best u sit down and tell ur dad and mom now so they see ur taking responsibility for your actions .... I was in a smI close position but I just turned 19 a week before I concieved
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    @jcmommy i kniw i didnt want to lie , i was planning on telling them friday . but i must sit down w/ them tomorrow and discuss this . i want my baby
    &holli i know , im so blessed to be 6 weeks pregnant
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    by santa barbara area. but yes tommorow im going too sit down with then . i just need to let my dad cool down . but yes ill be 19 on dec 6 and the baby is due nov 23
  • rose_town_mommyrose_town_mommy
    Yea I had the whole im dissatisfyd with ur choice u didnt clank....clank(its from tyler parry movies) but the more I showed I could and wanted to they came around grandparents love bbys just give em time they dnt want to think of there bbys growing up
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    Good luck chick I know its one of the hardest things but you just have to think you have nothing to lose...just make sure you make it very clear that abortion is not an option and you are your own legal guardian ...I don't understand how parents could treat their children like this I would never kick my child out of his home
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    And like I said I showed my mom I was more scared then her lol by crying before she did lol but she's also like me..very against abortion and knows I'm strong enough to deal with my what I made I was lucky she was very suportive atleast with that when I was a kid
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    @rose_town_mommy i know and i understand that there going to be disapointed and what not but i really just am going to need there support in the end .
    @tagensmommy i know im going to make sure i explain exactly how im feeling and all . i will never kick my child out neither . me and my father have just never communucated very well
  • teenmommy23teenmommy23
    @tagensmommy yes my mom didnt say anything , i think she had clues i was and was just waiting for me to tell her which i was planning on doing this friday
  • TagensmommyTagensmommy
    Neither have me with mine! I still haven't told him I am again lol...he asked if I thought of abortion with I was pregnant with my son it hurt like a knife him just suggesting it I couldn't imagine how your feeling
  • ashabashashabash
    edited March 2011
    @teenmommy23 If you're 18 no one can force you to have an abortion and please do not let anyone talk you into it. That will make you look like a horrible person and you will regret it the rest of your life. If you don't have someone to talk to that you can trust or stay with then seek help from a counselor or a pregnancy help center around your area. And if your parents truely care about you they will come around and eventually accept the fact that they are gonna be grandparents and they will support you
  • ashabashashabash
    Whatever lol I'm not even gonna get into that because I am extremely pro life and will probably get the little prego police after me and get me kicked off this forum if I say what I would like to say.
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