hows everyone feeling?
not symptoms wise, just emotionally. i have my really excited days and then my days where im just kind of here. i think it may be because im a very impatient person and 7 and a half more months is a long time. i dont know if i FEEL pregnant yet, i mean i know i am, and the nausea and sore boobs are a constant reminder, does that make sense? it's my first time being pregnant ever, after two years of not thinking i could be. hmm.
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Sometimes I don't feel pregnant...
@cupkake80: im very anxious too, its nerve racking thinking about it sometimes, but like you i dont feel pregnant, and im not sure how i should..
@amos: i totally hear you, i separated from my husband, no divorce, and after me moving out and two years of us trying with no results, the second month we are apart, after a few hook ups with him, preggers. i used to go out all the time and drink and smoke and all these things, staying out til all hours of the morning, and now i hardly see my friends because im just too tired ( i go to bed at 9! 9!!!), and i don't really want to go out anyways, because i feel they just don't get it. it sucks, i wouldnt say its selfish, because you stopped, which is important, if you didnt, thats selfish. its hard to switch over, especially unplanned. but you had to flip the switch, and you'll get used to it, i know i still am.
@booshysbaby: well it sounds like you and your husband still want to be together, was it the infertility that separated you two in the first place? Even with the circumstances I'm happy it finally happened for you and your husband and I wish you all the best.
@girlsloveink: haha Thanks for the advice. Sometimes it just feels like a big task getting ready in thenmorning though. I know what you mean though, just making yourself up puts you in a better mood and makes you feel better. My bf is extremely supportive, he's 29, and has mentioned he's at that point in Howard life where he's ready to start a family, so he's happy as pie, until he started reading the daddy baby book..now he's terrified, lol. Me, ill be 24 in July, and was planning on having kids when I was 30..so I was more shocked/terrified/my life is over kind of emotions. I've gotten past the shock and my life is over phase. And try not to fret over having a miscarriage, yes it can happen, but worrying about it and being scared to death wont make your chances of having one any less. Its actually better to just be relaxes and carefsree. Don't let your body stress over it. And having pain in your abdomen is normal, your uterus is growing after all. Oh and my mom is just a horrible woman..and my older sister is like the golden child..went to college, got married, then had to go through fertility treatments, which I wouldn't wish upon anyone. And then there's me, was engaged, broke it off, started going out a lot, versa a new bf, get knocjednup. My entire family mentioned abortion, but I just can't do that. I'm a big girl, I take responsibility for my actions.
Thanks so much ladies for the support, you have Helped tremendously...even if we all have different stories, we are all going through the same thing.
@booshysbaby I'm sure we'll feel the connection soon enough... it just doesn't seem real yet, but it is... LOL