My annoying husband (venting)

AlanaAlana
edited April 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
My boyfriend does nothing but sit at his moms house and buy her weed and shit. He acts like our daughters mean nothing to him when he's with his mom. He leaves work early every week just to go buy her weed like she actually needs it!

On top of all that I take care of his son from his past relationship & he's only 2! His mom was a great friend to me. He wants nothing to do with his son even when he should be there for him! He's 2 & he has to go through losing his mom.

Sorry its so long. I needed to vent.

Comments

  • AlanaAlana
    He also always smells like weed and smoke and comes in really loud! Some nights even waking his son up. His son also has really bad asthma
  • boofacebooface
    edited April 2011
    Wow...just amazing really. I don't even know what to tell you other than RUN! I don't know, if it were me I think I'd be long gone. I'd probably talk to his son's mom's family and see if there was someone capable of caring for him and if not I'd look into adopting him and having him sign over his legal rights to the child. It just doesn't sound like he's growing up anytime soon.
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    This is really sad :( call the cops on them. I don't even know what to say I'm speechless! Aww yeah sorry I don't know what to say besides call the cops.
  • AlanaAlana
    I really want to leave but I don't know
  • AlanaAlana
    edited April 2011
    @BabyLuv8 his mom has been to jail for selling and smoking weed many times so calling the cops won't do anything
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    I would leave. Hopefully he learns his lesson if not you will find an amazing man that will do anything for you and your children even if they aren't his. There are better and smarter guys out there. Its to bad that this is how you have to deal with :(
  • AlanaAlana
    @BabyLuv8 I don't want to leave and have to leave his son here with him. It's not like I could take him with me
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    Yeah its a tough thing. I wish ur was easier for you and you could just take him with you. If he goes to jail who takes responsibility for his child. Maybe you should adopt him. Tell your husband that he needs a mother and get papers then leave?
  • AlanaAlana
    @BabyLuv8 I don't want to leave. But maybe moving away from his mom so she couldn't control him so much. Were going to take care of the papers on Monday.
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    I would talk to him first n give him an ultimatum to get it together if he really wants his family. I'm probably missing a part but where is the child mama if she is able get her to turn over custody to u n u have to b firm n put ur foot down so he will not think ur stallin cuz if u do he will continue to do the same thing get him to understand where u coming from n that ur opinions does matter
  • AlanaAlana
    @zezy4da011 she died in a car accident a couple of weeks ago. Were in the process of adopting her 3 week old daughter
  • Andrea_KareemAndrea_Kareem
    That's sad. The government could help a lot if you gain custody over the 3 week old and have custody over the son you should go to DSS and explain your situation and they should fight to find you a home raise these beautiful kids. Don't let those kids to live in a home like that. Please try to find something to do. Why stick to the father when he isn't a good influence on them. You love the kids and your probaby all they have right now and I pray that yiu will take good care of them I will promise you that good will help you once you get up and realize that they need help. Pray at night and I hope you go get help and feel free to ask questions and ill always be here if you need someone or help researching safety .
  • AlanaAlana
    @BabyLuv8 his mom went to jail last night for selling drugs to a teenager! He refuses to bail her out this time & wants to move away from his mom and closer to his dad. So were moving now :D
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    That's awesome; I wish you all the luck! Be strong & stand up for your kids & what's right. :)
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    @Alana yay! That is great! Good luck! Hope it all goes up hill from here!
  • veteranswifeveteranswife
    Sorry for all that drama but that's happens a lot when a parent is more of a friend than a mom/dad. I hope you really move and it all works out.
  • babybrooksbabybrooks
    Don't feel bad my boyfriend jumps up to do little dumb ish for his family and friends (some or which are phoney and talk abt him behind his back and he knows it)and when it comes to me I feel like I'm the last priority.I know this is his first baby and all and he is young abt to be 23 but he wanted this baby too now I'm so irritated like you could be more supportive and sensitive since all that is gonna happen during this pregnancy is happening to me.plus he stays glued to his xbox ps3 and droid phone ugh the thing is he can be so sweet most times but I have to have the patience for dealing with the bull when it arises.and he has horrible comunication because he is afraid to be vulnerable with someone help.
  • AlanaAlana
    @babybrooks I had enough of his xbox and threw it out the window
  • babybrooksbabybrooks
    Lmbo thanks I needed that bet he was super mad.
  • AlanaAlana
    @babybrooks lol yea he was for a while.

    @BabyLuv8 looking at houses today. I'm so excited :D
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