problems with husband causing me to stress

mrs_mendoza2511mrs_mendoza2511
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
Today has been a bad day for me and the father of our child. He nags on our arguements .. he says he's trying to show me how mad I get and that I'm flipping out for no reason.. its so much harder to explan in txt form ..but its gotten worse weeks before now but I let it go. Point blank me and him arnt going to last. Idk what to do I don't really have any were else to go and with a baby on the way I'm soo torn on what to do .. as sad as it sounds I need help or advice.

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  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    I ignore my fiance give him the cold shoulder. He usually comes to me and wants to know what's wrong and is more willing yo listen to my feelings. Or I say sorry for argument and then explain why I was so upset. Sometimes this works for me... kill em with kindness. I find I get a lot further being sweet to him rather then being nasty. Kinda feels like I'm playing mind games LOL
  • mrs_mendoza2511mrs_mendoza2511
    @ghettobetty That what my mother told me but like I told her he pushes it andd nags things on as if he wants to argue and I'm losing my cool with this .. its gone on for too long. I don't want to rais a baby with someone like that.
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    Then leave. I was a single mom for almost 10 years with 2 kids you can do it! You know in you heart whats best for you and your baby :)
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  • mrs_mendoza2511mrs_mendoza2511
    @ghettobetty. Yea that's what I want to do.. but I havnt bee able to find a job around were I live so I would be leaving with nothing and no one I knows wants to have a soon to be mother and baby in there home. I'm supposed to start college soon to :/
  • kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
    my boyfriend does the same thing and I just ignore him and he usually comes around whens he starts to see that im not playing with him . its hard to do . but it works . ill ignore his calls and finally hell leave me a voicemail or tct me and say babe om sorry I live you or something like that . I think there just trying to show us what we put them thru on a day to day basis . yes its not right for them to do it to us but I kind of understand why he does it . just hang in there . I didnt think me and my boyfriend would make it to a year but we did surprisingly . itll all get better with time . hes hust nervous and scared .
  • mrs_mendoza2511mrs_mendoza2511
    Yeah but the problem is this is a husband not a boy friend so things work differently and my husband will repeat him self till I respond.. so its hard to ignore him because he will repeat him self till it pisses me off.
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