dying for affection :(

mamahopemamahope
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
How much do hormones affect us? I mean I uses to be such a stronger woman and it seems like now at 23 weeks I really wish my boyfriend would hug me or kiss me or at least sleep in the bed with me not having to ask. In all honesty he's a stoner. And I wish he would be there for me emotionally. Will these feelings go away. I hate feeling needy. :(

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  • due_in_julydue_in_july
    honestly hormones are crazy and unpredictable but its very possible to feel this way after the baby is born because that is such a huge change. i wouldnt stress too much maybe just talk to him about how you feel and he willl come around :)
  • nicoleok87nicoleok87
    What does pot have to do with it?? Does it bother u that he smokes? Or does he smoke when u wish he'd be with u*? Seems odd that u mentioned that... if so then ask him to stop:)
  • magcawmagcaw
    :::hugs!::: the neediness goes away in time, though not really until after you're sleeping relatively normally again. i'm sorry he's not there for you.
  • kenziesmom216kenziesmom216
    my boyfriend is the same way . no joke . im like thanks for the kiss t and hug or why cant you lay with me or why cant you spend time with me . hes also a stoner but whatever I cant say much cause I used to smoke but quit when I found out I was pregnant . itll go away . ive noticed mine has a little bit . yesterday u didnt even want him to touch me or kiss me or anything . and he got upset cause now hes wanting to be all up on me and I dont even want him by me . im 26weeks and 6days .
  • mamahopemamahope
    I mentioned the weed thing b/c he usually smokes before bed and passes out on the couch and rarely sleeps in our bed with me. I could be jealous. I think he'd be more focused on me instead of smoking. Yea I guess that could be...jealousy. plus I used to before I found out I was prego. I did talk to him but he seems careless. I ask him a lot a things about baby names and how to decorating the nursery...all he says ''i don't know''
  • due_in_julydue_in_july
    maybe when it gets closer he will be more involved. hopefully by the time the baby comes he will be more involved
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