@Nessa_Miasmommy and @perly smh lol I didnt say anything mean in this forum. I understand that many women come to this forum to get support my thing is why do you need validation from people like yourselves me myself included when you are suppose to know your situation more than anyone. What I dont like on these forums is that people like @ perly wanna baby grown women into thinking that support from pregly is just telling your own experiences and just being able to relate but being truthful to the person as well. All Im saying is at the the end of the day she doesnt come home to anybody at pregly so my advice since she posted her topic is to not worry about women on here who judge her cause they have to deal with their own issues and she should support the person who is supporting her which is her man cause what it seems to me that he is doing for her is most commendable cause some men wouldn't and she should care what he thinks not us. So report me @perly.
@Simplyjenai its not validation she was looking for it was her venting as said in her title i might add and all im saying is just be a little more sensitive to others feelings and no u didnt say n e thing mean but u could have came off a little sweeter since this is a pregnancy forum and women here are hormonal so i agree the comment u made was unnecessary u were not giving her comfort support r advice u came off completely snotty
@simplyjenai if she wants to b babied then so what u must be jealous or sumthin i luv it i think im more spoiled rotten now that im pregly than ever bottom line if youve got negative energy save it for yourself ive been part of pregly for awhile now and this is my first post because of people like you i hate being judged just makes me fighting mad
I guess Im not pregnant or somehing and not hormonal or emotional. I dont need to be babied cause Im a grown ass woman and hearing the truth is what I would want. To be honest I dont care what none yall think cause just like I said my peace you have said yours and Im good on it.
I wouldn't leave pregly just because of people judging you. I have Medicaid and food stamps and when I applied for ABC vouchers for my daughters daycare which was 150 a week (same as my rent) my boss flipped out on me. It was a small business and she was pretty crazy and she did fire me but she was one of those people who were born with a silver spoon in her mouth and never been through hard times like us! The way I see it though the people who are negative towards don't understand. Don't let it get to you! Its better to ask for help then to suffer.
@jess510 I know the process. If you read my answere I said PERMANENT RESIDENT AND THAT IT GIVES YOU ALMOST THE SAME RIGHTS LIKE A CITIZEN. I know they don't just hand out citizenship
My fiance said they raised the price to $1000 to take a test to be a citizen. Him and most of his family are legal residents except his dad who became a citizen. My fiance can live and work in us forever but can not vote or receive benefits from the government. Every state has different rules when it comes to what legal citizens can or can't do. Also even when we get married he will not become a citizen he will remain a legal resident unless he pays money to take a pass the citizenship test.
Also only having a work visa is different then legal residence there is more a person would go through to become a legal resident or citizen its a very long and very costly process I've seen first hand. It took my fiance dad 10 Years plus 8 more to get his family here legally. Honestly that's just crazy. If they told my great grandpa when commingle from Italy he couldn't bring his wife and has to wait 10 years before bringing her and another 8 years for your kids I wouldn't be here.
@ghettobetty it took me no longer than 6 month and cost me about $1500 maybe because I did everything before leaving overseas. the only reason I haven't done the citizenship test is because I am still in the process of keeping my own and become dual citizen since I think its not fair towards my kids to choose for them. I know they changed a lot since I first came here but me and a lot of my friends have all the same rights besides voting and jury duty and we all live in different states and are none military
Different countries also have different rules. I only know what my fiance family went through comming to the us from the Dominican republic. And sil coming from Guatemala. Some countries are easier then others and the rules a regulations are constantly changing
@Simplyjenai bottom line she was venting hoping others would understand what she was going threw and like i said the comment was not needed and u know it...as u can see ur comment is the odd ball noone else had n e thing neg to say see people seem to think that pregly is strictly pregnancy related all u see is women spillin their business venting talkin about their sex life ect if u feel that the discussions are "tmi" then maybe u should find another forum are social network once again thats my opinion on that situation
Don't worry about what people say, ignorant people think if you take assistance you don't work or don't work as hard. Sadly, the cost of living is higher than minimum wage but our "leaders" swear the cost of living hasn't increased... I say if you qualify, take it!! My hubby works at least 50 hrs a week and I still qualify cuz our expenses exceed even what he makes at that rate. Just cuz we have to accept assistance it doesn't mean we are lazy and our husbands are bums. It also doesn't mean we shouldn't have kids.
@SimplyJenai, oh I'm pretty sure you already know I did so I'm ok on my part. I dnt baby anyone especially grown "ass women" like you like to call yourself(which is not a smart choice of words if you indeed are older & mature) my point was that at the moment you open this post you can tell that this girl doesnt want the plain truth, all she wants is to vent and breathe a little. Who she goes home to is non of our business, obviously she came here to find people to relate to not to find people that were gonna be rude when expressing their opinions. I hope you understand what I mean the same way you would want us to understand your opinion... sometimes people just need to let out what they feel, be heard and that is it.
@perly Im through with the conversation to be honest. I said it before and I will say it on more time for you which is I said my peace and thats it. My comments were not removed so your reporting me doesnt phase me. The only thing I will apoligize for is if @hurstk28 took it personally. Im blunt in my conversation sometime. So I apologize for the tone but not anything I said cause thats real.
Don't worry about them hun. You do what you have to do for your family! They do not know you and can judge all they want. Let them say what they want. They don't matter anyways!
dont leave just because some people are bicthy and are always in a bad mood, they have nothing else to do but judge people like if they are perfect and live a perfect life(please) i wouldnt give them the satisfaction!!!!!
I can't stand judgemental people. Not everyone is as off as some people. I'll put it out there. Next month I'm getting help. I got laid off the same day I found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend works extremely hard to get money into the house but some things are just needed. And the creater of this thread don't worry about what other people think. Let them think that there better then you. Cause all in all when the days done and over they don't know you. They don't know your life. Don't let it get to you. Just let that crap roll right off your back. You have bigger things to deal with.
I understand u. Forget wat ppl say. If u need the extra help y not. While other ppl just use the extra help to be lazy, n wants to depend on other ppl to live. One day they will need the extra help. Good luck
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