19 and just found out im pregnant today! help!!!!

edited April 2011 in Pregnant
iv jusu found out im pregnant today, im 19 and im realy scared and dont know if i can do this??? im petrified of telling my mum please help me x

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  • I was there witt u grl. I'm 20 though.. I was soooo scared to tell mii parents!! U needa ake a doctors apt asapp.a child is a gift frm god.. I would keep it :) I'm 20 weeks today n didn't tell mii parents till I was bout 12 weeks... Don't worry on telling her yet... Jus go to the doctors then decide what ur gunn doo.. Good luck!! Its not easy butt u can doo it! I told mii parents bii showing them mii first ultrasound picc...
  • Well I don't have advice about telling your mum, but I will say that lots of people have babies unintentionally really young. The good thing is you have quite a while to get used to the idea of being a mum before your baby is actually born. I know you're really scared right now, but you will be okay. Trust me. Take good care of yourself cause you're actually already a mum. :*
  • im 19 and pregnant with my second . trust me you can do it . just set your mind to it and you can do anything . and in the case of telling your mom just sit her down and tell her . im not going to lie shes probably going to be mad or whatever but tell her soon so you can get proper care .
  • Awwwww im 19 and felt the same way when i found out i was pregnant. It took me tell i was 12 weeks to tell my mom and she was mad but not tat i was pregnant she was mad cause i waited so long to tell her. She was worred about the health of my baby but everything was ok. Im 17 weeks and 3 days now and im so happy i told her. U need to tell her no matter wat
  • I was terrified to tell my mom and I am 20. Make a doctors appointment first then worry about everything else. How is your relationship with your mom? Stay calm that is the best thing for your baby and you.
  • U can do it there are lots of options like adoption my parents couldn't have children & they adopted 3 of us. U could make a couple out there very happy. I have seen alot of young moms that have went through with their preg I have alot of respect for those girls I personally prefer traditional way of doing things but I have alot of respect for the girls who take responsibility for their actions & have their baby rather they keep it or adopt it out.
  • thanks girls i have a scan in the morning booked as i may be quite far as i havnt had a period since january so i wil let u know in the morning, i could never give a child up for adoption x
  • I'm 21 and was afraid to tell my mom. You're not alone. Just make sure when you tell her you're ready. Have a plan on what steps you will take to raising a child. I'm sure she will come around because my mom did. Once you tell her then you will feel so much better. If you're not sure if you're ready to be a parent I'd say look into adoption.. Good luck
  • I couldn't either but my parents just adopted a beautiful little girl. We knew the mom very well she was 21. U sound like a very mature young lady. U will do great. All of u girls sound like u will b wonderful mammas. Congrats.
  • I'm 19 too.... we all in this together girllya I was scared Tu tell my mom Tu smh but its done ite wnt b easy but u will feel much better after its all done good luck mama..... and since January.... ? Do u usually have irregular periods? I didn't find out I was pregnant until 8 weeks... if u need a buddy hit me up ;-)
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  • I'm 18 & a little over 5 months pregnant (: I was married before the baby came along, but this was still a surprise baby for us! & even though I'm married, I was still nervous to tell my parents lol but I did.. as soon as it was confirmed at the dr & they are sooo excited. Every first time mom is gonna be nervous about being a new mommy, no matter the age! & I have faith in you (:
  • I just turned 20 yesterday so far telling my mom was the easy part.
  • I had my first son at 19. And you can do it too. Now my son is almost 8 and is best thing that happend in my life. And don't worry about your mom, is time to be responsible and grow. Good luck girlie!
  • I'm 19 and found out I was pregnant in January, 5 mths after I just turned 19. It was so shocking to me. And I was so scared to tell my family because this isn't what they'd expect from me especially my mom. I waited thought about it for about 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant to tell my mom. I called her and told her. She was very disappointed but said no matter what I'll love you. We didn't talk for awhile then we talked again and she made sure I was healthy etc. She's still warming up to the idea but its all because she doesn't want me to end up like she did. But now she's is starting to be happy about being a grandmother. I know its going to be hard but its right thing to tell her. But no matter what I'm sure she will love you.
  • I'm 18 also prego due September 29 wish u the best your mom would be proud don't be afraid.
  • I'm 25 this.is my first and I was scared to tell mine too and I live four hours away lol
  • all these comments are lovely girls, i didnt realy expect to get any comments tbh, i didnt know their were so many nice people in the world, neek no i dont usualy have irregular periods x
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