would no "big O" hurt my chances?

mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
edited April 2011 in Trying to conceive
I know I will get "u poor thing" LOL but I don't know what I'm missing so its honestly OK (although my hubby hates it) but I have always felt Like I'm broken or something and am wondering if BC I don't, if anything having to do with That could negatively affect my baby making?

Anyone Have a clue? LOL

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  • Mimii36Mimii36
    Nope it doesnt make a difference.
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    :) good. I didn't think so but Like I said... sometime I wonder if I'm broken. I appreciate it!! @mimibriwneyez36
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    Oops @mimibrowneyez36
  • Mimii36Mimii36
    Lol.dont feel bad. Ive had the big O before but not very often from intercourse. Mostly only through oral. Ive heard its perfectly normal.
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    Majority of women don't have one but I can tell you how if you'd like :)
  • Leggs2011Leggs2011
    Heck I rarely ever cum too. I'm preggo. :) your fine dear.
  • boofacebooface
    Doesn't make a difference babe. I can only climax on top but we were strictly missionary when we were Ttc......2 weeks later BAM! BFP! Good luck!
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    I am 30 and Have never had one what so ever... no matter w my hubby or myself, position or partner. LOL

    But thank u ladies! And if anyone wants to try to give me the secret... feel free. Hahaha but I am glad that it wont interfere with my baby making!

    @booface @leggs2011 @proudmama
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    I use a vibrating bullet with intercourse or I rub myself while having sex. But no it doesn't hurt baby making
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  • Leggs2011Leggs2011
    If you are having troubles getting pregnant try using pre seed. Itsthe ONLY lube that is safe for the spermies. I used it for one month, plus tracking my temp, and I got preggo right away. :)

    Timing really is everything. We'd have sex every other day. For like 9 days I think.

    Good luck!
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    You're not broken, hon- I thought the exact same thing, too... I had a decent number of partners before my husband & none of them or myself could ever get me there. It wasn't until I had been with my husband for over a year that he was finally able to. I was 21 or 22. It just took forever & I kept getting frustrated & telling him to stop but he -thankfully- was determined & it finally worked! Lol... I am now 27, and have since learned how to do it myself, but it took a long time. My advice is to work on mental images (fantasies) that work for you & practice clearing your mind before; I really think it was ME that kept me from it for so long by thinking I didn't 'work' down there. Good luck! :)
  • lilbit01_209lilbit01_209
    Your baby making will be ok. I have not had one either and we are on baby #2. I have thought the whole broken thing also but your ok... some women just dont.
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    @mrsrocketfield1221 I have heard that the pulsating of the orgasm can pull the sperm back in that direction. Icannot usually orgasm either but my advice is to get a bullet! After he his his big o I tell him to stay in and then I use my bullet! They also say missionary had been shown to be the best position!
  • laura536laura536
    I highly recommend the bullet too. I can't orgasm from just sex either.
  • Jess510Jess510
    I agree with everyone else it won't make a difference.
  • LeviLuv8LeviLuv8
    @leggs2011 I just bought the preseed lube at cvs! I will start using it later this month. Got abfn on friday still no af but wewill see. Maybe I am prego!
  • veteranswifeveteranswife
    It's supposed to help making boys since the male sperm is faster and due to the big o is able to travel faster where it needs to go. I would recommend having sex about every second and third day. As nasty as it may sound to you or others it happens rare but some women release an egg last day of there period. You can take your temperature every morning before going out of bed for a month and as far as I know your temperature is supposed to be above 99 during your 3 fertile days. You also can check your cervix it will open and feel a little during these days to let sperm in. Your discharge will also change during these days. Or you just track your ovulation with the kits nut that can get expensive. Good luck on the ttc
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    *forgot to mention I also can't from intercourse alone & never have. It has to be manual/oral stimulation. Oh, and I got preggo both times without the big "O"... I have read it makes it easier to, because it lubricates the pathway for the sperm, but it also won't hurt if you don't. Good luck ;)
  • jade_may9thjade_may9th
    U may b having it and don't kno try peeing right b4sex. ...Ok so if u ever get feeling u have to Pee during sex but go to the bathroom and like a lil tiny bit...my boyfriend had tell i was cumming.
  • Phoenix_BennuPhoenix_Bennu
    Try some kegels..
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    I am good at them! Lol
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