I am over thinking this. Help

issybissyb
edited February 2011 in Trying to conceive
I have been trying to conceive for about 7 months now.(sorry for the mistake) Everytime I have one small sysmtom I take it and run with it. Instead of getting a baby I get a period. The sysmtoms are there and I wonder have I just been thinking pregnant so my body gave me the fake sysmtoms. I have heard that just by making your self believe you are sick you can get the sysmtoms of sickness. I am still trying my partner and I had sex on the 27th of last month which was my ovulation day. I have been telling myself normal normal instead of pregnant but I still feel like I'm pregnant maybe its all in my mind. Some sysmtoms I have been having are bloated, and light cramps in my stomach, hunger. Next week on the 9th is the day that my period is suppose to fall on. I need some help. Has anyone ever experienced early pregnancy sysmtoms? I want my baby but I am losing hope. If I am not pregnant this time I am not sure if I will try again. Advice anyone.PLEASE HELP
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  • georgias_mummygeorgias_mummy
    Dw ur not alone I feel exaclt the same only haven't been trying as long and I've got sore boobs bad back alwaaays eating and no sign of last period but done plenty of tests and all negative :(
  • LgarrapyLgarrapy
    U have only been trying for 2 months just relax and make sex fun the day u stop trying is the day u will pee a +
  • issybissyb
    All of my test pop up negative my sister has three kids and with them all she has had a period and she also had to get an ultra sounds done. I forgot to mentions that I'm having lower back issues as well. Like as I am writing this my stomach is cramping. I just want a baby of my own. When people explain the tender breast and stuff I get random pain in my breast or they itch like crazy sometimes but idk.
  • katlillykatlilly
    @issyb did you mean Dec 2010? Or have you been trying for over a year?
    Do you have an ovulation tracker? A lot of us used mydays period and ov tracker. I loved it! Good luck!
  • issybissyb
    She had to get the ultra sound done because the test kept showing negative she didn't know she was pregnant until her 3 month because doctors dnt believe in anything but what books say
  • issybissyb
    No I didn't mean that yr or month that's just when me and my partner started trying again we have been trying for 7 months
  • issybissyb
    I have that my days. Just got two months ago.
  • JayjaymaeJayjaymae
    To be quit honest with you yes you can want something so bad your body will trick you into having the syptoms even as going so far as to putting on baby weight having all the syptoms and it sucks but really you need to stop trying so hard girl and relax enjoy it and it will come good luck baby dust all the way.

    I know how you feel tho I was not supose to have babies and
    we tried so hard and my body tricked me into thinking I was prego and then found out I wasn't started trying again and got prego had a misscarrige and then started trying again and just doing everything we could but then one night we just went at with no thought in our head about how bad we wanted this baby and then BOOM we concived our baby boy and I gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy on may 31st 2010 and then when he was 2 months we started trying for our second once again just relaxed and now im 24 weeks prego with our baby girl so I know how you feel girl.
  • issybissyb
    I know the dates I ov. On the 27th I hadn't even looked at my phone to remind me. My bf and I just had sex. And after ward a few days I looked at my phone and seen it was on my ov date. Is that still over thinking it?
  • JayjaymaeJayjaymae
    No I don't guees that would be over thinking it.
    but I never did the hole ov date thing just streeesed me out trying to work around that and stuff
  • katlillykatlilly
    My ob told me to try on the days you are most fertile, but not every single day bc your man needs at least 24 hours to re-up ;) lol
    I conceived the day before I ovulated.
    I know you didn't ask for other tips, just hoping I could help you relax about it.
    Best wishes for ya hun! Xo
  • issybissyb
    Lol everytime me and my bf have sex its on my ov date or around it we never do it on purpose but once I see that it is I get excited. But something about this time feels differ. When did you find out you were pregnant? I wanna share some of these sysmtoms with you
  • mommy3mommy3
    Me & husband had unprotected sex for 6 months & I never got pregnant.. we weren't trying, but we weren't preventing it either.. & then we were apart seven months bc he's a Marine.. then once we got to live together again.. I got pregnant in a month. Lol strange how it works.. but just don't stress. Make sex fun for you two & not like a job.. you'll feel better & might get a surprise (:
  • issybissyb
    Thnk u kat. We have one night. But in that one night its more than once should it only be once in a night?
  • issybissyb
    That's the thing when me n my bf are having sex I am having fun I am not thinking about getting pregnant its the after the sex that I wonder was that the sex that brought me my baby? Then I stress my bf just laughs at me he says that I'm over thinking it. I'm starting to agree
  • katlillykatlilly
    You only need once bc his sperm are pretty much spent the first time, but hey! If he can give it to ya twice, why would I stop ya ;) lmbo hehe
    i took a prego test 2 days before my missed p. Which was Jan 16th. My lmp was Dec 20th. I am 6 weeks
  • issybissyb
    Congrads. That is wonderful. Let pray for my missed period and positive test results.
  • mommy2b123mommy2b123
    Don't loose hope!! I have been off of the pill and my fiance and i have been trying for over 2 years, I would do the same thing as you, every month id get some type of "symptom" and think I was pregnant but to only get let down and start my period... i finally got pregnant this last august but had a m/c at 6 or 7 weeks...after that i felt like it would never happen and i said i was loosing hope but now a few months later im pregnant again! And im actually having symptoms now! So don't loose hope, it will happen!! Good luck!
  • itsfinallyhappeningitsfinallyhappening
    These women are definitely right about enjoying yourself. Don't over think it. Me n my hunny had been trying to conceive for 2 months w/out any luck. Then finally we just let ourselves have a good time. He was joking w me and said he heard if I put my legs up for a few minutes (right after) that it would help me get pregnant. Totally joking I did it and low n behold now I'm 8weeks!! I'm glad it happened when we were just having fun and not over thinking it!
  • HippiemamaHippiemama
    Thats honestly true about the day you stop trying is when you get pregnant. I was trying for a year we both agreed it was time to stop and now im 5 wks. Just keep your head up and dont let it consume you.
  • angie87angie87
    I felt pregnant and had symptoms and I took at test negative I took on in January 11 cuz I still didn't get my period and it came out positive and It turned out I was 8 weeks pregnant when I took the test. Just wait a little after Ur period
  • cissie1977cissie1977
    Me too...we just kept stressing and then decided to let whatever happen happen...we now have five positive tests..can't wait to go to the docter!!!
  • issybissyb
    I thought that once u have a period the chances of being pregnant are slim to none my sister bleed when she was pregnant so she made me believe I could still be pregnant. I dnt know so should I test now or when my excepted period is suppose to come on the 9th?
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    I tried to get pregnant for months and months. I tracked my ovulation dates and all that. My period started to get irregular that it just turned into every other month which was so upsetting. After so long, my husband finally convinced me to quit stressing and when it happpen, it'll happen. And surprise I was pregnant 2 months later. Stress plays a big role. Just enjoy yourselves and see how that works. Good luck.
  • DiverwfeDiverwfe
    I know its hard but be patient I know ppl who tried for two yrs and when they gave up they pregnant don't put so much pressure on it you should relax and after a year if it still doesn't happen go see your doc
  • ScarlettsMamaScarlettsMama
    I used an ovulation test kit and it worked like a charm!
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  • issybissyb
    I'm not stressing about the sex part I enjoy the sex part I dnt pick the days we have sex on purpose it always just so happens to be on my ov. Dates I stress after the sex and waiting for the missed period.
  • JayjaymaeJayjaymae
    I really knew both times I was prego my body was just telling me
  • Prayin_4_twinsPrayin_4_twins
    @issyb I feel the same! We've been ttc for over 16 months it sucks waiting to test!
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