tmi... sex

edited April 2011 in Second Trimester
OK ladies just wondered if anyone has any ideas on how to spice things up in the bedroom. What's safe? What's not? What's easier as your belly starts getting bigger. Any ideas welcome.

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  • Honestly its a little embarrassing to ask but I figure I'm not the only one that is wondering how to spice things up safely.
  • My boyfriend seemed to be not interested anymore sexually and the only way I can get off anymore is when I'm on top which does get old so I tried something called backwards cowgirl style and he loves it (name pretty well explains it but if u want to kno how i will tell u lol) I'm 35 weeks and its still working wonders ;)
  • I think I got it LOL. Thanks. Ill try that.
  • I have tried many different positions, I like being on top, doggie style, he sat at the edge of the bed while I kinda sat on him(my back was towards him), he went crazy for that one!! He couldn't get enought! I dress up, or just randomly walk in the room naked! Sometimes i'll do a miny strip tease, using my cloths to pull him in. Or just jump on him and have my way he loves it!!! Im a freak I know!! Now that im pregnant its 100× worse!! :p
  • How far are you and are you showing? I'm on my 13th week and not really showing but I make my bf be on top and when I'm in the mood after a bit I will get on top. But I know that when I get bigger I will prolly ask the same thing bc I won't be as comfortable with a big tummy. Lol. So its not tmi :)
  • Same for me but he's not as kinky as I am LOL. So I try to keep it on his level but still add a little spice.
  • I'm 16 weeks and yep I'm showing.
  • It is getting a little uncomfortable with him on top now so I'm trying to think outside of the box. He likes it when I'm on top. But I'm trying to figure out other ways.
  • It is getting a little uncomfortable with him on top now so I'm trying to think outside of the box. He likes it when I'm on top. But I'm trying to figure out other ways.
  • Yeah, I was getting tired of the positions he liked until I finally said I wanted him on top and he finally agreed to it. But before I was prego I tried the backwards cowgirl and he really liked that one. I think once I'm big enough I will go back to the cowgirl one and doggy style just to feel comfortable with a big tummy.
  • You can also try to have sex while spooning..
  • I can't go on top due to leg cramps lol , and he can't anymore cause its uncomfortable and he's scared of hurting the baby, so all we can do is doggy style...almost done though...I want my sex life back!!! :(
  • I understand that. Just try to keep things interesting & fun!
  • I really like the spooning one :D I mean you're on your sides so its somewhat safer than on your back when you tend to get bigger.
  • You could also lay down on your back close to the edge of the bed w/ your legs hanging off the side & have him stand between your legs...It's one of my hubby's faves & we've been using it a lot lately since he doesn't want to lay on top of me...Works great for us:)
  • I enjoy shower sex with my man. I also get scrubbed by him which is nice with my belly getting bigger. Doggie style is my favorite and bj's for when I'm not in the mood :)
  • I seen a preggo karma sutra at books a million Haha, if your down for that. My man sits and I turn backwards... or any other position works, I agree with @cajunmom that is a good way also :)
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