I know its the hardest thing to give up your own child but im only 16 and I have nothing to offer this kid and I want the best for him and a family for him that can give him what I can't please let me know if your interestedd
So heartfelt, but heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you. Male the best decision for you and your baby. If you're really gonna put the baby up for adoption, you should contact an agency or social worker at your hospital. This isn't a legitimate or appropriate way of doing it. Hood luck to you and the baby!
Call planned parenthood, they can get u in contact the right resources. Adoption is a forever thing, most of the time you can't turn back. The decision to give up or not will change your life forever. Talk to a professional you need to get all the facts.
I understand wat u goin through but idk if they have open adoption. If ur parents n bf is willing to help u y not keep the baby. Sometimes keeping the baby is the best. I read about a baby that dead while in the Foster care system. No one knows how well some adopted parents r. I c a lot of 16 years old having babies n they r ok. Good luck n really think about it.
Hunny i know things seem hard right now but just because your 16 you can still be an amazing mummy...this is a hard situation to be in but at sone point all us Mummys think we might not be good enough...im have baby #3 and im 28 with a loving partner and a beautiful home..but still it crosses my mind that is this a fantastic situation to be in...good luck hun...make Wat ever decision is right for you xxx
I think your making an amazing decision talk to your family and professionals and see what is available open adoptions are possible. They will be able to give you counseling so you will be able to talk through your feelings and know what's best for you. Hugs Xxx
I think if your honestly 100% commited to giving your son adoption, that is the most amazing gift you can give a couple. I would recommend it for you. take care hun!!
I think that's an amazing decision. Im 30 yrs old and actually considered it. I never wanted kids and now im Preg by a man I only knew for a month. I decided to keep her because im financially capable and I have family support. I feel it would be selfish of me to give her up since im perfectly capable of giving her a great life. I have done exactly what I wanted since I was 17 yrs old. College, dancing, night clubs, vacations, travel nursing to california. I feel I have done most of the things I wanted already. Its a tough decision. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide.
I think that first u should figure out if this is really what u want to do...this is coming from a woman who has been in your shoes...I had my first child at 15...I'm not going to lie and say it was easy...but I will say it can be done...then I got pregnant again at 18...I considered adoption but not until he was born...so I left the hospital without my baby....i fought with myself about whether or not I was doing what was right for my baby or if I was looking out for myself...so i went back to get my baby...Just think everything through thoroughly before making any decisions...Good Luck and I wish u the best...((now expecting baby number 3 ))
Aww, good luck, honey. You are giving your child so much just by considering his/her future and what you can handle. I hope you can find something that you're comfortable with.
Adoption is great! I hope ur child finds a family to love him/her. Ur doing a good thing. Its hard when ur young but I see ur mature enuf to make this choice. Good luck to u & God bless!!
If this is what you want and you know you can not give it the home he needs then please do not listen to the stories about foster kids because the baby is so young they will have no problem finding him a wonderful home and you can pick the people and choose to have an open adoption that is your choice you just have to find a family that is willing
my bfs mom gave him up for adoption when she was 18 (this was 1983 wehn young unwed mothers were basically disowned by ppl) and it was the best thing she could have done for him. He never was able to meet his bio mom due to her dying in a car accident at 23 but he does have contact with his bio dad and his family. i love both his families. the only awkward part is i invited both to my shower and i dont kno how that is gunna work....we will see who all shows at one today
Sometimes the best love comes from you and you seem to be already attached to the baby because your profile name is my baby once you sign the papers you can not turn back think about this long and hard
@MYBABY wow im so proud of u, adoption is the way to go, we were looking into adopting thinking i couodnt have kids after my two misscarriages, i would hve been so happy to find u, and i would owe u my life. We r now looking to hve on of our own and adopting another. But if u dont mind me telling u thiss i suggest u get counseling, think about it alotttt, cause even if u think its the right choice u might regret it later hun...but im glad u r thinking about your child first....congrats on making the right choice
I just want to say that I think its very mature of you to want something for this baby that you may not be able to give him. My mom worked for the county adoption agency for most of my life and I've always grown up knowing that if I could or couldn't have kids I am going to adopt. But I feel that since it is much harder for kids past toddler to get adopted I will help most there. Bc it is a newborn you will have no problem finding a loving home for him. And you can meet and choose who you think will be a good family for him. I wish you the best of luck and know that if youre strong enough to do this then you will definitely grow up to be a very strong woman.
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If you're really gonna put the baby up for adoption, you should contact an agency or social worker at your hospital. This isn't a legitimate or appropriate way of doing it.
Hood luck to you and the baby!