Am I tripping? Its time to purchase the cow!
Ok.. I would never post this on any other boards but I love the pregos on here. Never been up for putting my business in the streets either. But here we go!
So I was previously married and I have 3 kids from it ranging from 7 to 18. So I'm 37 years old and now divorced and my honey and I have been strong for 2 yrs. He doesnt have any kids and is wonderful with mine. We agreed that I should be a stay him mom while he works and I tend to the house, kids and baby.. and also finish getting my Masters.
So here's the problem.. once you've been married its hard to just be a baby momma... and that's how I feel tight now.
We've talking about marriage and he says he wants to and he's in this with me for life... and his actions have shown this.. but when I bring up marriage he shuts down. He claims he wants to buy me this gorgeous ring I can be proud of.... my last ring was 2.5 karats, but I.don't need.all that. I'm like if that's the case then put that shit on lay-away ... but he hasnt moved toward that either.
But... now he wants me to relocate about an hour away closer to his job. He commutes 1 hour each way to and from work daily. He's getting tired and gas is high. He wants to be closer to his job.
I told him today I love him but I'm not relocating me and ALL THE KIDS including this baby unless I'm either engaged or married.
In addition: He loves loves loves the thought of me having his baby.. along with his family. Everyone's going baby crazy buying stuff and making a fuss over me.
Soooo.. He said he has to move cause he has almost fell asleep on the road twice and wants me to move too. But I'm putting my foot down on this subject. I'm not relocating for a BD.. I'm already giving him a baby that's enough sampling milk from this cow... time to take ownership and purchase it. I'm not leaving but I'm not relocating either.
So I was previously married and I have 3 kids from it ranging from 7 to 18. So I'm 37 years old and now divorced and my honey and I have been strong for 2 yrs. He doesnt have any kids and is wonderful with mine. We agreed that I should be a stay him mom while he works and I tend to the house, kids and baby.. and also finish getting my Masters.
So here's the problem.. once you've been married its hard to just be a baby momma... and that's how I feel tight now.
We've talking about marriage and he says he wants to and he's in this with me for life... and his actions have shown this.. but when I bring up marriage he shuts down. He claims he wants to buy me this gorgeous ring I can be proud of.... my last ring was 2.5 karats, but I.don't need.all that. I'm like if that's the case then put that shit on lay-away ... but he hasnt moved toward that either.
But... now he wants me to relocate about an hour away closer to his job. He commutes 1 hour each way to and from work daily. He's getting tired and gas is high. He wants to be closer to his job.
I told him today I love him but I'm not relocating me and ALL THE KIDS including this baby unless I'm either engaged or married.
In addition: He loves loves loves the thought of me having his baby.. along with his family. Everyone's going baby crazy buying stuff and making a fuss over me.
Soooo.. He said he has to move cause he has almost fell asleep on the road twice and wants me to move too. But I'm putting my foot down on this subject. I'm not relocating for a BD.. I'm already giving him a baby that's enough sampling milk from this cow... time to take ownership and purchase it. I'm not leaving but I'm not relocating either.
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This Im gonna marriage you game can go on for years.
I see my aunt, my sister and a few friends in these relationships waiting to get married and these me are claiming they want to BUT they haven't.
But I'm pregnant and naturally you'll think about the next step and want it.
I feel like he's being stubborn and making me wait with this attitude like "ain't no body about to force me"
But I also feel forced to relocate... we can stay put and keep playing house until he's ready for that next step.
Thats real talk right there!