soon to be dad needs reassurance

daddytattoodaddytattoo
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
Well basically ever since me and my girlfriend planned a kid and now is pregnant i have always thought because her hormones changed she might cheat on me or do something so horrible ive already coped some yelling and angrovation due to the hormonal changes i do fear if she is out her hormones might kick in and cheat on me or something really need some reassurance or advice thank you
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  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    I dont think she will...yall love each other enough to plan an make.a baby she wont throw that all away over a fling..men also can have the pregnancy hormones from there partner maybe thats y ur worried cuz ur feelin blue..cheer up she loves you.. Open up an tell her how u feel..
  • daddytattoodaddytattoo
    Maybe your right and i know the women during her pregancy but how do i tell her my concerns with her hormones attacking me
  • daddytattoodaddytattoo
    Woops i meant. I know the women need
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Jajajaja ur funny..... well jst how u talked bout planning a bby tell her ur concerns u will b fine.....
  • daddytattoodaddytattoo
    How am i funny im worried my girlfriend will cheat durning her first pregancy all the hormones are new and all amd she dpes go out sometimes
  • leeannleeann
    She wont. She loves you and wants you no body else. Just go with the flow with her if she starts shouting you go for a walk. I'm 5 weeks 2 days and i'm really bad with my partner and this is my second baby. I wouldn't worry about it hun
  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    will dont come off to.bitchy or just attack her with words either..just wait tell you.see her in a good mood and just say hey i love you and am really scared that you mite cheat on me and am scared to lose you and our baby...but you also got to.stop and think has she ever done anything to make you think like that..cuz if not thats you she gets mad she feels no trust n it upsets her.
  • casnlesliecasnleslie
    Trust me... she obviously care enough to PLAN a baby with you and thus a life. Crazy hormones do a lot, but trust me when I say they don't make you cheat. If there wasn't an issue of trust before there shouldn't be one now. As long as you are there for her (good and bad) she won't have the slightest reason to stray. Hope this makes sense and congrats on being a daddy to be :)
  • daddytattoodaddytattoo
    I just guess i finally have what i want in my life a kid and a beautiful girlfriend and if she was to xheat on me i dont kbow what id do she has cheated once in her life and never given me a secure reason to. Think she has cheated she has said a few things to guys that ive beem not happy about but thats the way she talks to thrm i guess
  • leeannleeann
    Yeah you always push the people you love away. And pregnancy is hard on mummy and daddy but you get their good luck hun
  • ggn24ggn24
    my girl friend is 8weeks I with to help her out but when I do she gets mad at me
  • casnlesliecasnleslie
    It is understandable that you would be scared to lose what you have. You just need to remember that words are just that. I think you should trust in the love between you 3 :) If it is really digging at you just talk to her. Be careful not to accuse her but make her aware of your concerns. And try and catch her when she is in a decent mood.
  • mamaOf2mamaOf2
    I believe she wont cheat
  • ggn24ggn24
    What do I need to do
  • ggn24ggn24
    Can anyone help me out here
  • daddytattoodaddytattoo
    Thank you all ive mentioned it a few times but she says she wont in a angry manner just seems like i cant sit down and just speak from my heart about it
  • casnlesliecasnleslie
    @ggn24 Some of us don't want help with anything unless it is absolutely necessary. I think it's our way of preparing for motherhood (and our egos.) If I were you, I would just let her know if she needs anything she can ask and kind of back off for now. She will come around. Just be there for her when she needs.
  • ggn24ggn24
    Ok is anyone going to help me out
  • ggn24ggn24
    I do but she gets upset if I do not do the right thing
  • itsfinallyhappeningitsfinallyhappening
    @ggn24 trust me I've been getting upset w my bf for not doing the right things either. But honestly its just my hormones. I know he's trying the best he can and I'm sure as upset as ur girl may be she knows that too. Like what was said before just let her know your there for her and ur trying ur best. She'll see that.
  • hupe23hupe23
    She's going to get mad and mean and u can't stop it just deal with it the best u can. ........good luck
  • ggn24ggn24
    I know im so happy that we are having a kid but she crys all the time I try to make her happy
  • hupe23hupe23
    Lol good luck a prego happy HA yeah right lmao we are crazy get use to it lol
  • ggn24ggn24
    I know that but sometimes she is happy
  • ggn24ggn24
    Like what do I need to say to here to make her feel good about her self
  • txmoorekattxmoorekat
    @daddytattoo - She may seem to have an angry response when you ask the question because 1) she may either be hurt or upset because you even have to ask.... Or 2) she may wonder if you are asking because you may consider straying.

    I don't think that she would plan a pregnancy with you if she wasn't 100% committed to you. Remember that her hormones will make her feel insecure at times too. You are both experiencing new feelings and worries. You'll have to be patient with each other while you work through it all. Best wishes!
  • cheryl74cheryl74
    Wow guys chill. Us womens hormones are every where but if we love you there is NO way we would throw everything away. We need constant comfort that we still look good, and even then we get annoyed. I ran away when I was pregers the last time. Honestly I waddled up the road with tears steaming down my face cause hubby wouldn't make me a cuppa. He found me at the end of the road and coaxed me back. Hormones are funny things but we would never cheat if we love you, shout, scream and throw things but cheat...NO .x
  • SheridanLM1991SheridanLM1991
    Pregnancy is a beautiful thing, and it's hardly likely she'd want to cheat on you. I adore my boyfriend, this baby wasn't planned but we're happy. It's normal to argue about silly things especially with raging hormones but trust me, the last thing any pregnant woman wants to be doing is showing her body off to any guy who'll look. It's a special time where you just want security and someone to lean on. So, just try and relax and be happy about the baby. It'll work out fine in the end. :)
  • billye910billye910
    Ur gf is also member of this app right so I'm sure her reading this alone will vocalize ur concerns...she has a similar post...yall b straight
  • BOWsMommyBOWsMommy
    ggn24 - just know that sometimes she's going 2 b upset no matter what u say. Seriously, sometimes I feel like I have PMS times 1000. Just let her know that u think she is beautiful, & u forgive her 4 being a psycho preggo lady (don't call her that though!).
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