@preggointx thats kind of what I'm saying, I mean.. I like orgasms so I know when I can feel one coming haha, but the fact that you even allow breastfeeding to get to that point is the disturbing part. I want to make it abundantly clear that those sensations are normal but allowing them to continue and then become a full on sexual climax is something I think should be a concern. @chrissy07 toddler breastfeeding, GREAT topic. I have a really hard time with all of these questions because I see patients that do these things literally every day. I have noticed that toddler breastfeeding seems to be more common in certain cultures, I rarely see women who were born and raised in this country by people that were also at least raised in this country, breastfeeding their children beyond a year.. It is perfectly safe, however.. I make it a point to communicate to my patients that sexual maturity is coming earlier and earlier these days because of hormones and preservatives in food, parenting styles and societal influences. No, sexual maturity is not going to come at five but a childs memory is far more developed at 5 than it is at 12mo and 3 years later at 8, the child is going to have far more vivid memories of the moments he shared with his mothers breast than he would had she stopped at or around a year. I think it can pose a great psychological risk and also a social risk. MOST mothers do not breast feed that long and if a 5year old child, not her own, approached her and grabbed her breast, tried to tug on her shirt, or simply asked to nurse, it would probably not go over very well. Studies now show that children that are breastfed for longer than 2 years tend to have deeper attachment and possession issues in their relationships with mommy as well as in their intimate relationships later in life. They also show great social confusion with their peers, teachers and other women.
I don't get a sexual feeling at all when I breastfeed and my bd still plays with them. No sex yet, but to me it's two separate feelings. Even ifi did I would stol bf it is the best for baby.
I breastfed a week w daughter. I wanna breastfeed with this one & I know i wont orgasm. But I'm scared it'll feel weird. Always felt weird bout my nipples. Sometimes I had to tell hub to stop playing cuz it don't feel rite. It stems from my childhood. I'm gonna talk w the midwife bout this.
I breastfed both my older kids it was pleasurable but NOT in a sexual way I never felt anything sexual or had an orgasim. I've always been very comfortable with brestfeeding that's y we have them. There wasn't always a choice it was brest or baby went hungry. I plan on nursing this one until 2
Whoa this post has blown up lol. Ok, so I personally wldnt nurse my kids till 4 or 5. I stopped them at a year, bc they no longer needed it. And when I said it released endorphins, its like not sexual ones, maybe its why bf mothers have such a bond with their bbies, not saying bottle feeding mothers don't...... @chrissy07
I defiantly feel that .1-2 is the time that it should be stopped although I don't think ill be able the nurse that long its good for the mothers who can
ive beeen worried about the same thing. its wierd i know, but my boobs are sexual to me. i stopped playing with them/assiosating them with sex as soon as i decided i would forsure breast feed. i also read that sum women take it as a sexual thing. wierd & gross. if i even get that idea during or anything like that (not just a nervous before concern) im just ganna stick to pumping only.
So guys, I found this a little late and hope I'm not repeating anyone else's post...
There are A LOT of women who don't know what a REAL orgasm feels like, but probably get a rush of happy/good feelings during sex (endorphins) and experience that same rush when BF and it is not actually an orgasm. That is the best plausable explanation I can come up with. I have super sensitive nipples and *can* orgasm from having my hubs stimulate them but NEVER felt sexually stimulated while BF... so I'm assuming if it's truly possible, it would have happened to me lol. I always fell asleep BF honestly, that's what those endorphins did to me =P
@happywifeymommy. Im amazed at women who can finish by nipple stimulation alone. Hats off to you!! Personally I hate it when a guy touches my nipples. I get almost no satisfaction from it. I nursed my daughter for over a year and it was a great bonding experience but my hubby definantly got the short end of the stick since it ruinedhis chances of arousing me using nipple stimulation. Tmi
Comments
@chrissy07 toddler breastfeeding, GREAT topic. I have a really hard time with all of these questions because I see patients that do these things literally every day. I have noticed that toddler breastfeeding seems to be more common in certain cultures, I rarely see women who were born and raised in this country by people that were also at least raised in this country, breastfeeding their children beyond a year.. It is perfectly safe, however.. I make it a point to communicate to my patients that sexual maturity is coming earlier and earlier these days because of hormones and preservatives in food, parenting styles and societal influences. No, sexual maturity is not going to come at five but a childs memory is far more developed at 5 than it is at 12mo and 3 years later at 8, the child is going to have far more vivid memories of the moments he shared with his mothers breast than he would had she stopped at or around a year.
I think it can pose a great psychological risk and also a social risk. MOST mothers do not breast feed that long and if a 5year old child, not her own, approached her and grabbed her breast, tried to tug on her shirt, or simply asked to nurse, it would probably not go over very well.
Studies now show that children that are breastfed for longer than 2 years tend to have deeper attachment and possession issues in their relationships with mommy as well as in their intimate relationships later in life. They also show great social confusion with their peers, teachers and other women.
There are A LOT of women who don't know what a REAL orgasm feels like, but probably get a rush of happy/good feelings during sex (endorphins) and experience that same rush when BF and it is not actually an orgasm. That is the best plausable explanation I can come up with. I have super sensitive nipples and *can* orgasm from having my hubs stimulate them but NEVER felt sexually stimulated while BF... so I'm assuming if it's truly possible, it would have happened to me lol. I always fell asleep BF honestly, that's what those endorphins did to me =P
Personally I hate it when a guy touches my nipples. I get almost no satisfaction from it. I nursed my daughter for over a year and it was a great bonding experience but my hubby definantly got the short end of the stick since it ruinedhis chances of arousing me using nipple stimulation. Tmi