My husband's family is the same way. They always ask him how i am doing instead of asking me. He works all the time and his parents live 5 minutes down the road. They could always come and see how i am doing.
I hate that!!! I just told my hubby I was mad at his mom because she's never even tried to contact me and she has my number. He says she asks him but idk.
I know it is really bugging me and unfortunately my husband refers to himself as "stay out of it stan"so I know he won't say anything ugh! But these will be the samed people trying to be in my buisness atg the hospital....... >:p
@pregoagainYAY OMG! I feel the same way! My husbands fam didn't even call me to congratulate me or ask how I'm doing! Whenever they call him they ask him how am I doing. Wth! This really bothers me, hormones or not! Then when the baby's born they are going to wonder why they can't see her/him.
Its very frustrating.....they are the first ones to preach about the bonds of family and yet I feel like I'm stilll an outsider.......oh well then maybe I won't feel like visitors at the hospital ;-)
U guys r lucky. Lol. My husband's family is always in my business. My sister in law got mad cuz she wanted to be in the delivery room with our first baby and I wouldn't let her.
Idk but it bothers the hell outta me! Or my in laws ask him if he (my husband) is coming to visit them when they have get togethers. They dont even ask him if im going. Like do they not want me to show up? My husband just thinks I overreact but it does bother me a lot. Then they have the nerve to get mad when I tell them I only want my husband there when im in labor
Go figure right! I'm glad I'm not alone on this......I'm more rustrated that I'm letting it bother me because ever since we got married they have never made me feel like I was apart of their family....but it sure as hell is bugging me now lol!
I have a major problem with he step mother in law. Everything has been annoying me bcause I'm pregnant but with this I'm pretty sure id be annoyed either way. She always says the baby will be a girl and be named after her or have her name for the middle name. Which it absolutely is not! Her name is ugly and if it would be named after someone it would be my mom. Now I have to worry about if they come all the way up while I'm in labor if shell get mad that I don't want her in the room. I only want like 3 people in there. I don't want her loud mouth in there. That's not wrong rght?
My hubby family did that with our frist at least they aren't saying the babys not his mine did till I trew the paturnity report in there face and told them off in spanish last time they messed with me now were on baby number 2 and I get along with everyone I just had to assert myself I didn't let them think I was shy when they ask him id interrupt and say im sitting right here I can answer better then he can
Just to give a different perspective, maybe they don't want to be bothersome or feel like they are the 10,000th person to be asking you how you are doing. You never know they may be wanting to give you space to enjoy your pregnancy and not be up your butt all the time asking questions etc. At least they ask how you are doing even if it is through your bd, it shows they are at least thinking about you.
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