please dont judge hard enough

joyjoy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
No support no where to live no job complications and and no way to be on bed rest for 7or 8 months. Im 24 parents kicked me out babby dady is not im the pic. Im still legally married so in fl I don't qualify for aid. This is so hard I wanted a baby so bad my husband can't have any and that's y he left, me a year ago. I don't believe in abortion but with my situation and the complications looks like saturday im having one. I've been a wreck all day hope I can get my like on track and get pregnant again when im able to handdle any possible sanario......... im so sad :'(
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  • joyjoy
    Life*
  • momamarmomamar
    Life sucks sometimes. Im sorry you are going through this.
  • joyjoy
    @momamar....thanks im so scared I really want this baby .....
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  • joyjoy
    Yea just no place to stay and its a highrisk because the baby is draining me of nutrients and im cramping blacking it they said id probably Loose it any wat
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  • kkmommykkmommy
    What about the babys daddys family, he may not want to be involved but his family might... it might be worth it without any other options what could it hurt... I'm sorry, I don't know anything about Florida to suggest any kind of assistance other than what mama_kat said. Have you tried WIC to see if they know of any help you could get?
  • joyjoy
    Yea atlanta ga but tomorrow ill see is that's a option
  • Proudmama102011Proudmama102011
    Moving is a good option here in georgia you will be on medicaid no matter if married or not. They believe in care of both mother and child. I dont believe in ab also but your choice just remember that god dont put more on you than you can bare. Gl payers are with you.
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  • KingsmamaKingsmama
    There r also lots of government funded programs for moms in need. They help cover costs for ur visits and such even if ur high risk. I agree about looking into WIC too. They can provide u with healthy foods during pregnancy. Gl to u I hope all goes well for u and ur baby. Ur in my prayers.
  • joyjoy
    Thanks for all the support
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  • islandgirlislandgirl
    Joy where u stay in Fl?
  • MomE2A09X11MomE2A09X11
    There is lots of help out there. Life line is a great help for mothers who choose not to abort. If you choose to keep your baby and need help my email is oreopeanut@AOL.com.
  • joyjoy
    Lakeland
  • cbr_girrliecbr_girrlie
    Good luck with getting help. I can't imagine feeling so alone. I really hope u get the help u need. Try really hard to get help before u make a choice u may not want to. Maybe try talking to your parents again?
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Praying for u and ur baby. I hope u will decide to keep the baby alive. Look for help b4 u take the babys life... maybe there is an adoption agency that can house u while u r pregnant. That way the baby gets a chance to live.
  • DaiLynn725DaiLynn725
    Hunni I know how u feel and things will get better. I wad dealing with something like that but it got better for u. I promise if u need anything I'm here if u wanna talk.
  • joyjoy
    U guys r all so nice and supportive
  • eaparkereaparker
    This is ur chance to be a mommy. And u never know what the future holds. I know people that had an abortion and then weren't able to concieve later. Make sure u exhaust all choices before making that decision
  • joyjoy
    Im keeping it!!!!! Couldn't do it. My parents changed there mind and r supportive. Im 7 weeks today a lil earlier than expected and due oct 2...... im happy!
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  • joyjoy
    One I saw my baby I couldn't do it :X :X
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  • Kmose77Kmose77
    So glad to hear that!! Its hard when you feel like the world is against you, but things can change in the blink of an eye. Take care of yourself, and that lil life!!
  • izander4izander4
    Yea....im in a bad situation myself.....battered women's shelter (bd isn't the abuser) and that's where im going to have my baby, but you gotta keep ur head up....there are a lot of women's outreach programs you can look into, and also there are attorneys who specifically deal with cases like yours....good luck sweetie
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