Depressed my daughter father want be in her life, jus like my biological dad wasnt in my life

blackbarbie10blackbarbie10
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I was raised without my biological dad he never was in my life...but once last year n April my older brother decided to ask me to spend a weekend with him n my sister so I stayed I invited him to my graduation n may I was thinking he had changed NOPE n til this day we can't talked since I left..I told his wife I was pregnant he still den call Me but I'm lucky to have had a dad her since I was 1yrs old his married to my mom for 11yrs n dated 18yrs.....my bf Jus decided not to call me it's been 2wks n I haven't saw him since march I hate my babiigirl may experience what I went thru without a biological dad but I love my step dad like my real dad I always calked him dad n he gives me da world I'm now 19 Yrs old

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  • blackbarbie10blackbarbie10
    Still living with my parents going to school to better my education so I can raise n take care of my babiigirl l will b her mom and dad...even he does decide to come around I'm not taking him back either I'm pregnant with his babii too n he haven't call n checks on her since April r went to doc appt only 1time n dat was n January hell Naw I'm 6months almost 7 n where have You been no sir stay on in the streets ion need you at all
  • momof22bemomof22be
    You go girl I'm glad my dad wasn't in my life till I was about 12 and its been scetchy since if hes a duche bag shes better off with u and you will be the best thing that she could ever hope for good luck girl
  • blackbarbie10blackbarbie10
    Thanks yep that's wat I say as well...since he left for dis 2wks I have found myself not thinking of him to much I'm all for my lilladiibugg hella way wit him...
  • DyaniCDyaniC
    I understand hun.. I did have my dad growing up, in fact I live with him but my sons dad won't be in his life. At first I was real angry. I spent years with this guy and all of a sudden he turns into Hudini when I get pregnant. I thought do what you want to me but your son doesn't deserve this and he needs his father.. Eventually I figured the worse he is to me the more i want to raise my son to be nothing like that. I started being apathetic towards him, he'd try to fight with me I'd ignore him, he talked about his new gf I'd talk with him.. eventually he realized I just didn't care anymore and now he's talking about wanting to be apart of his sons life and what not. I don't get my hopes up I say if you want to fine but if not he'll be good with just me... My advice to you hun use your experiences growing up and with your b.d to raise a strong independent woma. Have the mind set that ok her dad gonna treat us like this, ima make sure she doesn't put up with men like that. Theres always a silver lining.
  • MikeandRonAdoptMikeandRonAdopt
    @blackbarbie10 Sorry to hear this.. Keep your head up!! Hopefully someday your bd will wake up and then step up...
  • blackbarbie10blackbarbie10
    @DyaniC thanks for the words of encouragement I used to cry in be sad but now I'm so realived I feel better now that ion love him as much as I did b4..

    @MikeandRonAdopt I will continue to keep NY head up wen he comes around if He show up at my appt this month like his mom said he wud I'm gone act like I'm the happiest girl n da world even if I think about how I used to love him imma still not give in..
  • blackbarbie10blackbarbie10
    @DyaniC thanks for the words of encouragement I used to cry in be sad but now I'm so realived I feel better now that ion love him as much as I did b4..

    @MikeandRonAdopt I will continue to keep NY head up wen he comes around if He show up at my appt this month like his mom said he wud I'm gone act like I'm the happiest girl n da world even if I think about how I used to love him imma still not give in..
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