Cant believe it

valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So one of my friends told me that she used to be pregnant and I said"huh?you aborted?" She said "yeah" and I said "why?abortion shouldn't be used as birth control" and she said"i didn't want the child".omg. I can't believe she said that.Now another angel is in heaven just because somebody didn't want it :(

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  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    :(
  • bummy87bummy87
    it sux aye "my friend" aborted at 18weeks thats just cruel I cry everytime I think about it n also when I reached 18wks n could feel kicks
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    Awww man :( that sucks man like she should have stepped up and took responsibility,even tho she's in college.man..
  • cdswimcdswim
    Next time she doesn't want a child maybe she should use birth control.....
  • SiyahsmomSiyahsmom
    Wow thats crazy. Be cool wrap ur tool. In like my mom wld say if ur old enough to play ur old enough to pay
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    @cdswim She claimed she didn't have insurance for bc and she said the condom broke...I mean I can't talk to her how I used to.Ik that's wrong but...Idk
  • ExcitedNewMomExcitedNewMom
    Did she say she used abortion as a means of bc? Not all ppl want children. I mean she should have been careful but accidents do happen. I wouldnt abort my child but i wont judge her for doing it
  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    When I lived with a family friend and raised her son (who is my cousin) I was always talking about my side of abortion (it was debated alot in school) and Im completely against it..and she would always agree with me an said shed never get one....well a few months after that I found out that shes had one!!! I was furious.. >.<
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    @ExcitedNewMom well that's exactly how it sounded.that wouldn't be right to just"get rid of it" because you didn't want it.she should have taken responsibility for her actions.we all know that condoms aren't 100% and anyone is foolish if they believe so.
  • ExcitedNewMomExcitedNewMom
    Well i wouldnt kno how it sounded bcuz i wasnt wit her lol but some women do use it as a form of bc. N some jus dnt really want to have babies. I mean she was using a condom, shit happens. Its not like she was trying to get pregnant n then jus aborted it after she realized she didnt want it
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    Yea...but a baby isn't just something you abort because you weren't ready.adoption could have been in the plan.
  • ExcitedNewMomExcitedNewMom
    Adoption isnt for everyone. Some ppl probably wont want to give away their children after they see em so its best not to see em. Im not trying to change ur mind about it jus trying to explain y someone might abort.
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    I'm saying she got rid of an innocent person off of what happened.that isn't right.Im sorry but i just don't understand.
  • MikeandRonAdoptMikeandRonAdopt
    @excitedforbaby ... I respect a womans right to choose but sometimes for just 1 minute I could speak to a girl who is about to do that and remind them that there are other options out there and that a family (like mine) could give that baby an amazing home...
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    @MikeandRonadopt so true.....I wish I can too.just change minds or change options that can save a child's life.
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