this probably only bothers me bc im hormonal but...

Soon2bemomof2Soon2bemomof2
edited May 2011 in Just for Fun
I am grateful that my fiance provides for our family but he works A LOT he worked today from 8 am to 4 then at 2nd job he does a few days a week from 6 to 11 it is now 8:59 pm and he sends me a txt asking if he can go play video games at his friends till 1 am. Not only will he wake up my 2 yr old and the dog will start yapping his head off when he comes in because he can't do anything quietly I have spent a total of 20 mins with him today AND I spent all day yesterday taking care of him because he was sick. I have 7 weeks left I'm pissy and I want some alone time with him and I HATE being asked things spur of the moment which he knows...I just want to slap him upside the head for being insensitive.

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  • huneybeehuneybee
    I would be upset also.. u should not hav to tell him u want to spend time with him he should know..
  • cdswimcdswim
    He needs to make some time for you. I would feel the same.
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    Ugh I would be sooooooo pissed! I personally would super tell him off!!!
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    I know how you feel, my bf signed up for a bunch of overtime. He worked 12 hr days all weekend then worked 12 hr days all week. And now tomorrow he's working 18 hrs 6am to noon then 6pm to 6am and then back to 12s all weekend and next week. He got home at six and I was able to eat dinner with him and now he's passed out on the couch less than 2 hrs after he got home. Its depressing cuz I have no friends or family that I can hang out with during the day. Just the stupid dogs
  • Soon2bemomof2Soon2bemomof2
    I hate it all I do is clean the damn house and my daughter is my only company all day he is such a douche sometimes
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    Yep all I do is clean too and all I have are the dogsand the kitten
  • a_wagnera_wagner
    I know exactly how u feel...luckily for me my hubby started to get the point when I would get mad so he rarely does it anymore
  • lilpeapod913lilpeapod913
    Ahhh I'm in this boat two. Bf works midnights. We just bought a house that we are fixing up so when hes at work I'm sleeping, when he's sleeping I'm at work and when he's not sleeping he is at the house working. I've spent 20 min w him all week and haven't talked to him or texted much. I'm very upset. I've been sick to my stomach the past two days and he hasn't once asked how I'm feeling and acts like 1) I'm ungrateful 2) I dont do as much as him (I'm 22 weeks pregnant!) and 3) that I have the attitude when he yells at me to leave our room 5 min after I get home so he can sleep... he gets pissed that I went to see a movie w a friend during the day on my lunch break gave me shit for wanting to see that movie at night then asks of I want to go out to the movies that same night for his friends bday and that is more important and he went on a fishing trip but can't make 5 minutes time for me. Smh men just don't get it :(
  • Soon2bemomof2Soon2bemomof2
    I flipped shit I told him I'm tired of being a domestic and the fact thathe works and thinks it justifies him not having to clean cook or help around the house is old and I can't wait to work after this baby so I can support my damn self because I do it all anyways and that he can go out whenever he wants and that I am expected to stay home and be fine with it makes it stupider than his question
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