so valentines day is here

adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
and this is my first v day alone in 5 years i was with the same man, excuse me i mean boy, since sophmore year in hs and he left because I'm pregnant :'(

I'm so sad i when to the grocery store to pick up some stuff and i saw these 2 buddies buying flowers and chocolates for their gfs and i got to my car and started crying i miss him so much and i shouldn't because hes done so many mean things to me, abandoning me bc I'm pregnant was the worst thing he's done.

I hate being alone I'm so depressed anyone else feel this way? Am i crying alone this year?

Comments

  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I've spents most vdays alone.
    Spend it on a date with yourself! Buy your fave food, watch your fave movie, & just relax. Or have your best mate come over?
    Just remember that you don't need a "valentine" to be loved. :X
  • ashesashes
    I totally agree with natashalynn.

    Valentine's is kinda stupid anyway, honestly...I've always had a Valentine and still never done anything...imo its something for high school kids. Sorry if that's my b!tch opinion....every year for me its just been there for the day after to go buy cheap Reese's pb hearts and cups. Helllllllls yes!
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    That makes it more sad i don't even have a friend to be with nobody calls me anymore since i told em I'm preggo.
    I feel like the lamest person in the world right now.
    and i really hate my ex i can't even think about what he's probably doing with god knows who.
    Maybe its the hormones but this is genuinaly breaking my heart.
  • ashesashes
    Just think about this... you have a new man coming into your life and this is the first Valentine's with him, you may not be able to see him but you know he's there and you can talk to him. Take the night tomorrow to be with you and your belly. Eat whatever you feel like, get some cran or pom juice and drink it out of a wine glass, and watch an uplifting movie (or whatever you like)
    Try not to get stressed or sad, the baby will feel it. Maybe spend the night making him a Valentine's card, just for baby, put it in your journal or nursery or with his things. :X
  • elyandanthonyelyandanthony
    Im feeling exactly wut yu feeling im alone n it sucks i just wish my baby was here then i wouldnt b sad or crying .
  • Babyluv_3Babyluv_3
    Well ur not.alone u.got ur baby inside u to.celerbrate with
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    I've spent most V days alone. Once, I even had a bf break up with me right before V day after I got him a present >.> Be happy for your little baby. I like staring at the u/s pics I got of him/her yesterday. Its nice to see it since I don't have a bump yet. Like those singing fish say, don't worry, be happy!
  • nahla612nahla612
    just keep thinking your forever valentine will soon be here. Im married wih two kids, valentines is just another day. Dont stress yourself out over someone who obviously doesnt seem worth it. You just take of yourself and your baby. Trust me after your baby arrives every holiday will be beauriful and you will never be lonely again. And dont ever feel lame your gonna be a mommy you dont need those so called friends. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    You ladies are all so sweet every comment i read made me cry harder :/
    i think I'm dealing with something more than v day blues I'm really really depressed have been for a while
    And i wanted to talk to my dr about it last appt but he wasn't there so i only saw the nurse practioner and she didn't make me feel comfortable to open up so i didn't say anything.
    My next appt isn't till march 10 i just don't know what to do I'm more sad everyday.
    is this normal for being pregnant?
  • nahla612nahla612
    Yes its your hormones. You should have seen me in my last pregnancy every little thing made me cry from commercials to spilled milk. dont worry it will go away.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    edited February 2011
    Thank u /:-)
  • nahla612nahla612
    UR welcome. CHEER up. MY email is nahla612@yahoo.com if you ever need someone to talk to or if u have any questions. Dont feel alone or depressed no more ok.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    Thanks i try everyday and i will keep trying at least I'm working another 12 hr shift tomorrow night so i couldn't really do anything special if i wanted to i just keep working overtime every night that's my only hapiness because i know I'm providing for my son with or without my exes help
  • nahla612nahla612
    good for you. your son is very lucky to have an independent mommy. you keep thinking positive and everything will ok.
  • MiracleM2BMiracleM2B
    Poor mommy /:
    Keep your head up, be strong(:
  • mom2b91211mom2b91211
    Hey Girl. I'm going through the exact same thing. Me n my baby daddy broke up because he couldn't handle the stress of pregnancy. Yea I cried 8 times a day. I was Seriously depressed. But let me tell u...I have picked myself up n turned my focus on this beautiful baby growing inside of me. N now without warning I met the wonderful Guy willing to deal with my pregnancy n b there for me. Honey you have to realize that ur ex is a man. N men can't handle grown up situations. What turned me around was I started bleeding n had to go to the hospital. They told me my stress could cause a miscarriage. I was not ready to have my ex b the cause of me losing my baby. So I turned all my hurt into happy thoughts about my baby. If u want to talk let me know. I can give u my email address.
  • sherimariesherimarie
    I went threw my first pregnacy alone. Was alone on thanksgiving though. Im on my second and still am emotional over everything. Just have to find ways to distract yourself. Stressing is never good for you. And now not good for the baby. If you need someone to talk to just let me know. Always nice to vent to someone who actually understands
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    @babyboyontheway I've struggled with depression for years, & the change in hormones are not helpful. Take it one day at a time, & you'll be ok!
    Sending you lots of love. :x
  • mommy3mommy3
    I'm sorry you're so sad.. if it makes you feel better my husband hasn't got me anything. Even when we were just dating. He gave me money for christmas last yr & this yr got me some new clothes since I'm prego. & got my wedding ring. Other than those three things.. I've never gotten anything for my bday, valentines day, or anything else. So don't feel too bad.
  • adriens_mommyadriens_mommy
    @mommy3 its not the present part that is sad when me and my bd where together he SUCKED at giving presents but just having him there to love and to love me was the best gift

    Its funny when i had a valentine, then valenines day wasn't really a huge thing bc i had my love with me already but now that I'm one of the single gals everywhere i turn is v day this and lover that :/ in all the stores on the radio and tv and with EVERYBODY i know because they all have there partners and plans for tonight it just won't stay out of my face that's so annoying!!

    Well hey i need to come up with something positive now i just got off a really long shift at work its 8 am now and really windy outside fun to watch my pups playing in it outside i got a cinnamon bagel in my hand and cable company is finally coming to install my dish so no more having to watch only 3 different channels! Lol
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