am i just being a bitch

pinkie4pinkie4
edited June 2011 in Pregnant
Question how would you feel if your mate could talk to their mother aunt and sister about the stress they have going on but completely shuts down or talks to you like your the cause of what's going on......Not to mention thank them for all they've done.....

Comments

  • one5oneone5one
    Talk to ur man bout it. That you want him to open up to u too.
  • vtmamajujuvtmamajuju
    Men are horrible communicators. Im always getting on to my hubby cuz it seems like he tells everyone else everything but always forgets to tell me. I don't think he means anything by it but it really hurts my feelings. Yours may just be more comfortable talking to them. I can relate to your feelings being hurt, but men just don't make sense. Sometimes its best not to take it personally.
  • PEsMommYPEsMommY
    I sorry. I dont think that makes u a bitch. He should confide in you
  • podgemarinepodgemarine
    My husband sometimes has to vent to a parent or 3rd party when the fire gets hot with us.. but about 99% of the time he will talk to me about the conversation afterwards ..
    What do u consider posting a discussion and talking to hundreds of other woman about what's going on in the stress in you4 life? I would say as long as its an occasional vent its healthy I think.. but every situation is different
  • pinkie4pinkie4
    Thanks ladies for all your support but I guess it hurts so bad because were going thru it together but u leave me in the dark or if we do talk your angry like I'm blaming you when I'm really just trying to find a solution for our family
  • mrs_shumrs_shu
    I think if its the occasional vent that's fine. But when he's spilling everything to them and not you it's a problem. Hubby and I went thru something similar where he'd tell his mother and work "friends" all these issues he was havinf with "us" but I was left in the dark. It was a really really bad time for us. You guys need to find a communication style that works (I feel instead of you do) and keep at him so he understands whatever problems or issues are never gonna be resolved until he stops telling everything to them and starts talking to you.
  • Mimii36Mimii36
    Men have trouble communicating. I have to say that is what I absolutely hate the MOST about mine.
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