damn. im sorry i just read your post...i cant imagine what you are going thru but i hope you find strength to move on, i know nothing can take your pain away, but just keep you head up....there is a light at the end of every tunnel...
Omg. I couldn't imagine experiencing something like that. I am so sorry, try to look at it as you gave birth to an angel. He was to perfect for earth, he's up there watching over you.
Im so sorry hun! it takes a strong person to get through this. You are very strong, stronger than you know. Just know ur lil angel is in a better place now. Everything happens for a reason even though you may not yet know what that reason is. My prayers are with you, god bless!
@timebandit I just read ur post it really touch my heart I'm 20/3 I cant imagine how u must've felt u are strong for going through this...I'm sooo sorry I hope the best for you and ur family much luv..stay strong...
I'm so sorry, i wish you could've had a better ending love... I was hoping for the best the whole time i was reading your story, i will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong remember the sun always shines after every storm.
I went into preterm labor @ 23 weeks with my first baby, Emmalia. Was sent home on meds, water broke two weeks later while doing nothig but laying in bed, went straight to the hospital where I was put on magnesium and other meds, my body held on for two days, the third day they couldn't stop the labor, my baby was breech, this was known by they way. Had seen a prenatologist the night I was admitted. By the time the dr got to me she's was half way through my cervix, because of her position the dr made the decision that I push. She died due to injury suffered during her delivery. I asked the same thing, why me?! Truth is u will never know until the day your called to heavens gates, then you can ask. My heart goes out to you and your boyfriend. I truly understand how devistated you are, precious girl in due time you'll get stronger. Allow yourself to mourn your baby, and let others around u know how you feel. Giving him a name may also help you. Me and Emmalia's dad didn't make it through loosing her, I felt he didn't understand my pain, looking back now he did he just showed it in a different way. Truth is no one but you know how you feel, and again don't be afraid to express that. My baby was born 11/16/09, and I still cry for her. I am now 22 weeks,tense but optimistc. God will see us through. When your ready try again. No baby will ever replace your first but u can find peace that when you are blessed again theyers an angle watching over u and that new baby and you both will be strong and make it through just fine. Loosing a child is the hardest thing a women will ever experience, after you start to find some peace which will take a long time you'll find out how strong of a women you are. I will pray for you, stay strong girl.
You're amazing for being able to post your story so soon, I can tell you are a strong woman and I hope and pray that God can continue to bless you and give you strength as you go through this as well as your significant other and your families. I am sooo sorry for your loss i cried reading this as it brought me some memories if you need someone to talk or relate to i am here. >:D< [-O<
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers, and for those of you who have bravely told there store to me. It gives me hope for the future to know there are women out there who will support others in their time of need. We've gotten Calebs labs back and there was nothing I mean nothing wrong with my son or my placenta. No infection, no genetic complications nothing. This is great news but horrible news at the same time. I'm dealing with the" if nothing was wrong why were you taken from me?" Did I do something that upset the cazmos and the heavens why? The only conclusion I've come up with in my own research is that pre- pregnancy while I was with my ex I was told I had a telted uturas and a pregnancy would correct it, could Caleb of done that and put pressure on my cervix to make it start to dialate? Idk my first dr. Appointment is on weds and I'm all ears to see what they think. My b/f and I have already talked, when physically and emotionally ready we will try again. Loading Caleb I feel has brought us closer together and for him its been an eye opener to mistakes he has made in his life. Our son, our angel bring peace to those around us as well as continuing to give me and your dad peace of mind that it was neither of our faults.
You are a strong person for being able to tell your story. Ive had a miscarriage and i know it is nothing compared to what you have gone through but i know the love of an unborn child. My prayers are with you and your family and just know that your beautiful angel baby is watching over you.
Sorry to hear about your loss. May the good Lord be able to bring you some kind of comfort and understanding. I hope with time your heart will begin to heal. God Bless.
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This really got me teary u will b n my prayers omg rest in paradise little man (Caleb)