Leaving your baby to cry???
Quite a few people have said to me that as long as baby isn't hungry or wet it's ok to let them cry for a bit but I just can't do it. If my lil man is crying I have to try and make him feel better. Even when I want to I just can't let him cry. What do you think about leaving baby to cry preglys?
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@bambi_bump I love the slings! They are really handy and comfort babies extremely well!
@Everyone I think it's ok to let baby self-soothe at a certain age. I wouldn't let a newborn self-soothe though. They are new at this thing called 'life'. Lol. I started self-soothing techniques around 5 months with my other two. Just because baby isn't hungry or wet, doesn't mean they don't need something lesser. Like attention, or maybe they have a lil belly ache. Mommy hugs might fix both of those!
I don't believe that letting an infant cry it out is a good idea under normal circumstances. I do think that there are instances, as they get older, where crying it out becomes the only option. But usually I don't think it's the best method, and for me it is always a last resort.
Laura536 I totally agree with what you said. How can a newborn trust and build a relationship with you when you don't respond to a need and the ONLY way they could express that need is to cry for newborns. They have no concept of being spoiled but they crave mothers touch.
I was watching this birth video and I realised after such a traumatic event such as being born, baby is comforted being skin to skin with mother. Being on her breast, hearing her voice and smelling her. Even as adults we are comforted by touch. Think about it. What would you do if someone cries, you hug them, pat them on the back. Its just soo simple. I dunno how everyone doesn't see this.