My bf makes me feel like I have made a very big mistake.

averysmom2011averysmom2011
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
My boyfriend didnt care that we made the decision to keep our baby, he told me that maybe we shouldnt have kept the baby. He hasnt even brought his baby one thing at all since we found out we were pregnant. All he wants to do is play his video game, an worry about hisself. He even told me that he isnt gonna stay with me while im n the hospital. He makes me feel like I did the wrong thing by keeping my baby:(


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  • mommy2be24mommy2be24
    edited February 2011
    Awwww you didnt do the wrong thig its a blessing u having a baby!!! Hopefully when u have it he will come around!!! Right now he don't understand what u going through and it might didn't hit him that his about to b a dad yet!!! U just stay strong for ur baby!!! And keep ur head up and if u need someone 2 talk to I'm here good luck ;)
  • mommy2be24mommy2be24
    edited February 2011
    I'm sorry I meant to say u didnt!!
  • mommy2be24mommy2be24
    My stupid asss phone sorry u didn't make a mistake
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    If YOU want this child, if YOU know you're going to love it, then its not a mistake.
    He might cone around, unfortunately he might not, but that's the fantastic part of living in this century...we women can be strong without a man!
    Stay strong hun. Much love your way.
  • averysmom2011averysmom2011
    Thanks girls:)
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  • steph_s90steph_s90
    God doesn't make mistakes, that's what keeps me going when my bf says anything, actual he's my ex now he just broke up with me yesterday bc he doesn't want the responsibility. But I know that things will be ok I have my family and friends to be there for me:) keep your head up no matter what the situation is things will get better and hopefully your man changes :) good luck :)
  • averysmom2011averysmom2011
    Thanks everyBody
  • Laurenmarie729ILaurenmarie729I
    Dont worry bout him right now you have to many important things to think,about! You know you didn't make a mstake you kept your baby for a reason! Concentrate on you and your baby if he comes around, great if not you will have eachother! Goodluck! :)
  • panaceaCpanaceaC
    You definitely did not make a mistake. I have had an abortion and by you choosing to keep the child now I know you would have probably regretted it. There is not a day that goes by I don't think about the child I gave up in fear of being alone. I am glad you chose to keep your baby. My little girl even at her worst is the sunshine of my life and I can't wait to have my second angel. But I will always be heart broken over the brother or sister they will never have.
  • averysmom2011averysmom2011
    Thanks, even though things are bad. I look at my belly move an feel my baby boy moving inside me lets me know that im very positive I made the right move by keeping my baby.
  • oc86oc86
    My bd still feels this way towards me. He is still tryin to make me have an abortion, but there is no way I can do that. He tells me this is gonna ruin his young life & that he's suicidal. Tells me that I tricked him and got pregnant on purpose. He calls me selfish for not thinkin of him & gettin an abortion. Its jus been so horrible. Pregnancy is suppose to be a happy time but I'm depressed & cry myself to sleep everynight.
  • averysmom2011averysmom2011
    @oc86
    I'm so sorry to hear that. I really hope that you keep your baby.
  • praying4rfirstpraying4rfirst
    Make him wach the silent scream on YouTube or u wach it its n abortion video its very sad I must warn u
  • averysmom2011averysmom2011
    I seen it before.
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  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Haha sperm donor I love that expression, anyway.... he may change once baby comes, has he gone to any appointments with you? prob just hasn't thought properly yet not a lot of blokes do unfortunatly
  • TechGirlPaTechGirlPa
    They aren't men.. they are selfish little boys that want to have sex but not deal with what comes with it. Your child is more important than someone like that. They made the decision as well as you and should not take it out on you let alone calling you names like untrustworthy for remaining pregnant and caring about your child.
  • oc86oc86
    @gabschillin. I'm from Detroit. I guess some guys jus don't kno how to man up. But yea I'm definitely keepin the baby, he's jus gonna have to deal wit it.

    @averysmom2011. Yea I'm definitely keepin it, he's jus gonna have to deal wit it.
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  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    your not wrong in keeping your baby as long as you feel in your heart that you can be a mother. even if you are scared... you know whether you're up for the challenge or not. seems to me like he's going to miss out on an amazing opportunity and needs to get his priorities straight. i hope that he does for you and if not... he's not worth it. there will be someone else to love your child. i know, i am a step mom of 2 little girls that i never carried in my belly but have always carried in my heart. know that your strong and that you can be a great mommy! and there's forums like this for some added support when you can't get what you'd like at home!

    congrats on being preggers!
  • MsKrystalMsKrystal
    @oc86 My bd says the exact same thing, especially the suicidal part. Ugh... I can definitely relate to anyone going through this. It's horrible, but we're strong. We can do this.
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