TechGirlPa
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Please help me I have not spoken with here in 5 days I want to go over there and she her how bad would thatt beMarch 2011
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mdoe_02Well yesterday I ccalled to make sure she was alive. She didn't answer but texted me she at the doc. She called as soon as she got out and asked me to stop by. She showed me her new furniture and stuff. I was short and only asking her qustions about the baby and her. She asked how I have been and I responded just tring to plan for the future. Being single. I told her that I relized after running into my x that I was over her. My x I mean. I saiid thank you for that atleast. I told her it may be harder to get over her seenings how im going to be in contact all the time. She replied witth do you have to. Get over me. I said you really left me no choose. You said you don't have those feeling for me and I would rather be alone then be in a empty relastionship. I said I have to look out for myself cause I can't keep hold on to something that's not there. She asked to hug me and she did and kissed me on my neck. She apoligized for being a heartless bitch. I said that I can't put myself thouggh what I have been through the last couple week. I don't want to know how she feels nothing for me. She said she would not say that. I said I should leave cause she had dinner plans she said please don't leave stay with me.I said shit on me once sham on you shit on me twice sham on me. She then kissed me and we ended up making love and she was into it. After I asked her if this is our last goodbye. She said do you think so. I said let just have today and we will feiger it out later. After we ate went to bed. I woke up she kissed my neck goodbye. And then after work she called me I had to let her go. And I called her later but she haas haalf asleep. So idk what to think
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TechGirlPaMaybe she's coming around for real and she's realizing what she's done. I still think you should be cautious though. Be strong and don't be too needy at this point, at least that's what I'd do. Be there for her of course but don't jump in with both feet yet.
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mdoe_02Yep wed was great thrusday was distant she wanted nothing to do with me this weekend. On sunday monrning I called her when I got of work midnights said I wanted to come lay with her. She said why I said cause I tired of going to an empty bed. I went over and gave her a back rub then she offered a blowjob and we had sex. She offered to make me breakfast. So we ate and it was just dead silence. After about 20 min she said don't you have to go to bed. So I left and hugged her I said I love you and she said nothing. Wtf. I can't go one like this anymore really I don't even like who I am around her anymore. What should I do
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mdoe_02Yep wed was great thrusday was distant she wanted nothing to do with me this weekend. On sunday monrning I called her when I got of work midnights said I wanted to come lay with her. She said why I said cause I tired of going to an empty bed. I went over and gave her a back rub then she offered a blowjob and we had sex. She offered to make me breakfast. So we ate and it was just dead silence. After about 20 min she said don't you have to go to bed. So I left and hugged her I said I love you and she said nothing. Wtf. I can't go one like this anymore really I don't even like who I am around her anymore. What should I do
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TechGirlPaHi Hon. I was afraid you'd send me a message like this. Well you're seating with someone who's basically is shock over her new life circumstances. I don't believe she really knows what she wants and sees you as someone who took away her old life and or freedom. Is some of it hormonal? Sure but women blame far too much on hormones. Its almost like her brain wants to punish you for forcing her into that situation, although you know it was mutual. Fear really messes people up. In her mind you're the source of all her new found life changes and she's trying very hard to take control back of her life. She's definitely not thinking clearly.
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TechGirlPaI don't think there's anything you really can do at this point. She's the one with this issue and she's the one who has to get herself on track. Its just sad to me that you're stuck waiting around for thongs
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TechGirlPaThings to hopefully get better. There's no guarantee that she will come to her senses about you and the situation. All I can say is just take care of yourself And make sure its known that you want your child. Maybe some day she will wake up for real but who knows. I know it hurts but its one of those things that you have to try very hard to not take personally. This is about her and her own insecurities. Its not about you.. and she's not thinking about you.. she's only thinking about her and how her life I'd affected.
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