advice for a first time mom to be.
Okay, so i am 17 and expecting my first baby girl.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we are moving in together in the middle of august.
however, i am nervous to move in with him because i am scared that we are only going to grow apart when we move in together. Like a lot of times when people move in together they fight more often and end up breaking up. I am scared the stress of the situation. He seems optimistic but i just want to know what you moms think. or some advice to deal with these fears. im just scared i want to make the best decision for all of my family.
I know my boyfriend is a great guy and will try.
my mom does not like the idea of me moving out, but is allowing me to do so.
and im just nervous.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we are moving in together in the middle of august.
however, i am nervous to move in with him because i am scared that we are only going to grow apart when we move in together. Like a lot of times when people move in together they fight more often and end up breaking up. I am scared the stress of the situation. He seems optimistic but i just want to know what you moms think. or some advice to deal with these fears. im just scared i want to make the best decision for all of my family.
I know my boyfriend is a great guy and will try.
my mom does not like the idea of me moving out, but is allowing me to do so.
and im just nervous.
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@mschop thanks for the advice i will be sure to do that.
and @momof22be yah, i am sure i will need tons of help with the baby, but i know he will be good for that. it is important to him to be there. and yah, my mom told me the door is always open if i get sick of him or if he gets sick of me. She is a great mom. im lucky to have her. and yah thanks for the advice, it is nice to hear from someone who was in the situation.
And @mommy3 is correct. Even if you moved in with a friend it'd be the same thing-minus the sharing a bed part
"if you cant handle me at my worst then you dont deserve me at my best" and it will be a learning experience for you bith you dont truly know a person until u live with them and OMG when i first moved in with my hubby (bf at the time) he was a SLOB!!! im a neat freak so that immediatley teared some arguments but youre gonna have to learn to compromise and learn things about each other all your habits and what not and it will be great having your bf there to help after the baby arrives especially those late night feedings and diaper changing when youve been sore all day it helps to make him get up and take over Just remember to give each other space dont spend 24/7 w him youll get overwhelmed eventually and so will he......dont nag and complain instead just figure out a way to let him know something is bothering u and u need him to help u fix it COMPROMISE----especially if its his doing---->dont point it out right away just kinda hint it to him lol 8 yrs later and married weve made it and were as much in love as we were back then!!
I hope you'll be as blessed as I am