Why are people cruel?

MikeandRonAdoptMikeandRonAdopt
edited July 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
Why are some people so evil?

Why do people think that just because they don't approve of families like ours that that gives them reason to send horrible e mails or messages telling us what they think of "people like us" (not on pregly)

Why if people see something that they don't agree with can't they just look away and mind thei own business?

What is wrong with some people?
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  • survivormommie3survivormommie3
    because they disgust themselves so if they distract themselves with other people who have better lives then they can attempt to justify their actions to themselves.
  • Jensensmommy15Jensensmommy15
    Aww I'm sorry people are so mean. Some people just don't have anything better to do with their time. I think you two are great and just ignore the nasty people. I always say when people put themselves in your business and take the time to talk/email you there just jealous!
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  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    A lot of people are really ignorant and insensitive. Please try not to let it get to you. You know in your heart that you two will be the most wonderful parents and that you have good hearts. So many of us support you guys. Ignore the asses, keep your heads up, and never lose hope that your dream of having a baby of your own will come true. :ar!
  • one5oneone5one
    Hurt people hurt people. People who don't feel good about themselves take it out on others. That's what I know. Don't bother reading the nasty things, just delete!
  • HavingNumber4HavingNumber4
    cuz there are more miserable dumb ass people in the world than they're good people which explains the rule misery loves company.
    Cuz theyre small minded people who still live in the 1800 centuries and to dumb to adapt to todays society
    Cuz they are the ones that wishes that they have someone who loves then as much as yall live each other
    Cuz they don't realize that their actions are what's making them lonely and bitter
    I can go all day but ill let someone else post
  • babynum2andproudbabynum2andproud
    They must be jealous of u. Some have nothing better to do then rain on others parade because they r sad and miserable in there own lives.
  • AydonsmommyAydonsmommy
    They honestly have nothing better to do, and are jealous that they see in u things they can never be. Maybe its cuz the loving relationship ship u have with ur partner, all the love u have to give to ur future child/children, or heck it could even be something as petty as a material object. Who knows! But what's important is that their ignorance is theirs and theirs alone. U know deep down what will be best for ur family and u will make amazing parents no matter what others may think.
  • LittleBuddy0811LittleBuddy0811
    Some people are just ignorant and single minded. I'm sorry you had to experience people's need to spread misery. You two are good people and full of love. Some day you will have a little miracle baby that will grow into a kind loving adult that will accept and love everyone.
  • MikeandRonAdoptMikeandRonAdopt
    I googled the e mail address of this one particular d-bag and he lives in the UK. Is this really what you do in your freetime, harrass people around the world?
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  • mrs_shumrs_shu
    Because things that are different and not their 'norm' threaten them. Its hard not to take it personal, I bet they spew their hate to others as well..but they can't touch you..they don't know you and since they're so hate filled their main agenda daily is hurting someone. It gives them a purpose.
    Breathe in, breathe out...and enjoy the beautiful day with the one you love:)
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Seriously... These kind of people (the jerks) piss me off so bad! I'm sorry u have to deal with this junk. I live in (well, a suburb near) rochester, ny, gay marriage was just passed (whoohoo! :) ) but b4 it was passed people were protesting it which totally ticked me off. Rochester is a dump, full of drugs, crime and poverty... I dont understand why people take all that time to protest against people loving eachother instead of protesting again something like crime. Just seems so stupid. I wish the world was a kinder place for our children.... Hopefully by the time our kids r grown everyone will be more open minded and open hearted.
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Ps. Stay stong u guys! :)
  • Kells32Kells32
    Sorry:( I can't understand why people do this either. Live and let live.....period. It's a double standard people who throw around that kinda of hate are usually trying to deflect from something in their own lives that they feel is not right. Keep your head up :)
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    One of my best friends is gay as is my sister, so I know without a doubt how cruel people can be. One of my favorite quotes is "those that mind don't matter, those that matter don't mind"
    Hang in there guys. For every person who's "against" you, there's dozens more who are rooting for you.
    My thoughts are with you both.
  • kamillas_mama9kamillas_mama9
    Ugh hearing things like that irritate the sh** out of me!!! Why can't people just stay out of everyones business??? I don't know you guys but I think you will be amazing daddies!! Ignore them jealous bi***es ! HUG!! :)
  • 1sttimerarmywife1sttimerarmywife
    Because they suck, plain and simple. Thinking of you and praying that your baby finds you soon! What a loved and lucky child that will be :)
  • allyssasmommyallyssasmommy
    People suck in general and there are those who don't and those who suck are not open minded they think there world is perfect and its not to say the least just delete them and ignore bc ur gunna be awesome parents I can't wait for the post from you saying we got our little one!
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  • vayannavayanna
    I know its hard to not take it to heart but ignore them they just are threatened by what they don't understand....... You guys are perfect the way you are and who ever sent you that is just jealous and ignorant......... You guys will be perfect parents you guys have more love in ur hearts then most people do and no hatred and you are different and don't let society tell you how u should love.......
  • SmgibbsSmgibbs
    Because they are idiots!!! I wish you the best of luck! :-)
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    Cos they're prob narrow minded twirps
    Try not let it get to you both from your fb page and on here you have a lot of support

    sending love and positive thoughts from UK <3
  • valentinasmommyvalentinasmommy
    They are dumb ass people who can't see past their feet. Narrow minded assholes. I'm sorry mikeandron :( ill tell them where to shove that email.
  • Hot2Cold87Hot2Cold87
    They just dnt understand a lot of people just mad b/c they don't agree with who you are but its like you are talking to a human with feelings just like you! I never will get why ppl feel like its okay to yell things are do things just because you are different! Its like racism to me everybody should have the same rights w/o being judge and hopefully we can do better so that you are not harrassed for being you! As long as a child gets a loving safe home that's all that matters and if that's what y'all trying to do good luck I hope you all get 10 kids :)!
  • MikeandRonAdoptMikeandRonAdopt
    @Hot2Cold87 .. 10? I better ask for a raise.
  • Hot2Cold87Hot2Cold87
    Lol...the more the merrier!
  • misskristinmisskristin
    @mikeandronadopt I personally think you're both great! From what I've read that you've posted, I think you two have a solid healthy relationship which could make others jealous. You will both be wonderful parents to some lucky child. Some people are just so unhappy with their lives, they have to find fault in others to feel better...it's sick. I really have a problem with close minded idiots.
  • LittleFaeLittleFae
    Because when someone believes something so strongly they think that everyone around them has to believe the same thing. And if they dont they attack them. The world is full of so many different people and those people bring different cultures, beliefs and their way of living. Who is to say who is right?
    But when someone encounters a person who is the opposite of what they believe and live they feel threatend. Instead of taking the,time to learn about that person and try ro get to know them they judge and attack.
    The internet made it easier, there is just a screen and now people have bigger balls because they have something to hide behind.
    Hate can be heavily driven by fear and ignorance.
    I hope one day there is less of it. Im sorry that you two are having to experience it. I hope one day very soon you both are holding you child.
    Im sorry if my post doesnt make sense. I blame prego,heat insuced, chocolate strawberry deprived brain :)
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