Do You Trust Your Other Half?

Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
edited July 2011 in Relationships
Women feel that all men cheat. While some dont. Men DO FEEL that all women cheat as well. Some dont. ( yes I have heard this before.) Have you been cheated on? yes or no. Do you trust and believe in your other half? Why or why not?
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  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    I have been cheated on, I have cheated in some way when I was young.
    With my husband.... never been cheated on and fully trust him! :X he's one of the special ones that are worth holding on to!

    So glad that I've grown a lot, and also for the crappy situations I've been in bc they've made me stronger and brought me down the road I took to meet my hubby. ;;)
  • AngelmonkeymelodyAngelmonkeymelody
    I trust my other half 100% and I have been cheated on by all of my exs except for one and that is my hubbys best friend
  • kcike812kcike812
    I've never been cheated on in any of my relationships. I completely trust my husband and believe he wouldn't ever do this. I believe/trust him because of his belief in marriage, God, and he was raised with all women.
  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    I have been cheated on and gave up on men I thought "they were all the same" until I met my husband he gave me a reason to believe otherwise <3
  • lae3lae3
    I feel like iwas cheated on.. No solid evidence.. But it was in the begining of our immature relationship.. Weve been thru alot in our ten years but at this point I trust him.. Hes a good father and he.comes home every night.. Works hard. And takes care of us.. He always tells me im beautiful and eveb today he said hes still atracted to me.n my.prego body.. Lol he kbows wut ti say wen I dont feel so hot lol
  • mszcastillomszcastillo
    In my fiances last relationship he cheated. Not just once but many times. Alot of people hear that & think wth am I doing with him? Aren't I scared he'll cheat on me too? My answer: No, im not scared of him cheating on me. Because I do trust him. I 100% believe she was the reason he did it. With me, he has no reason to cheat.
  • Karla_with_a_KKarla_with_a_K
    I trust my hubby! Hes one of the few good ones around here and he loves me even when im a witch to him! I dont believe he would ever cheat. He doesnt like to go anywhere without me and hes not the type to wanna go to the bars or hang out with anyone unless I go too.. <3
  • bbylucasMommabbylucasMomma
    I've never been cheated on cause I've only been in three relationships this one being my last and only we will be getting married and I trust him 100% and I know he trusts me the same and we are both eachothers firsts were happy and crazy inlove we couldn't live without eachother :)
  • jamiesandefurjamiesandefur
    My ex dumped me in front of a group of people and said he never cared just wanted n my pants... a year after we split up he sends me a message asking how I am and saying he has a 1 n 1/2 year old son.. so yeah I've been cheated on. I don't believe every man cheats, my man now is the most amazing. I don't have any doubts about him or what he is doing. Like with my others if they got a text I was nervous. Nothing like that now. I love my man <3 and I'm very grateful for him.
  • rckprincess2rckprincess2
    I haven't been cheated on that I know of. I've been with 2 men and married both. I trust my husband with my life. I trust that he wouldn't ever cheat on me. We have been through a rather rough relationship because of my trust issues and his. We've both been wrong by others in different ways and it was hard to figure out how to deal with new relationships properly. I trust with out any doubts that he would never cheat as he trusts that I would never. We both have too much respect for ourselves and each other.
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    I've never been cheated on. I trust my husband (of 7yrs) 100%! He's a good man. And never in a million years would i ever even consider cheating.
  • armywife3armywife3
    edited July 2011
    I honestly don't trust anyone 100%. I have my reasons why (nothing with my husband), but like someone posted in the other thread, I'm not going to walk around and constantly stress myself about if my husband has or will cheat. What's in the dark will always come to the light.

    I was cheated on by my first love. Coincidentally, he got married yesterday, but he just IM'd me today saying I was his 1st choice and told me he loved me.

    I also cheated on someone before and had no remorse. I got sloppy and I got caught. I regret it now, but what's done is done.


    That is why I don't 100% trust anyone, but I don't make my husband pay for past mistakes. If it happens, then I'll deal with it when it does, but I'd like to think that we take our vowels seriously this time since we're both on our second marriage.
  • jazzi89jazzi89
    i trust my other half 100%
    im letting him go to vegas with his buddies for 5 days for his 21st
    although if we can find a sitter i will b going as well
  • survivormommie3survivormommie3
    i trust my husband 200%! Not only do I love him, he loves me and we both feel if our feeling ever fade why cheat? I mean, if nothing else break off the relationship, deal with the aftermath then move on. we're not really the impulse type of people. of course we all have our wants, but even if something happened to hubby and i, i wouldn't be able to cheat- the guilt would take over any lustful moment. :X
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    See me I trust my bf. I think whats the point of being wit someone and you dont trust them. But I contradict me self because jus like @armywife3 I dont trust ppl neither wit the same reason as well had nothing to do wit my bf. As a youngin I did my dirt as well the ppl I been wit.did their dirt. I only use it to make the person I am today and the sexy lovely guy im wit now !

    Thanks ladies for all of your input ! Well said !
  • armywife3armywife3
    edited July 2011
    @Fashion_Junky91 ...right!!! you live and you learn, but you ALWAYS remain cautious!!! Not saying that it is a definate chance of you being cheated on. The reality is that people do cheat. It's a scary situation and nobody wants to be in that predicament. I try to always be prepared for the worst.
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I've been cheated on. But looking back, I take blame. I was with guys who weren't ready for a relationship. My current bf is my best friend. We tell each other everything. If I didn't trust him, even a tiny bit, I wouldn't be with him
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    @armywife right on ! =;

    @natashalynn I saw this movie and this guy was explainin how girls diss guys wit this.line and the guy said girls will say oh I dont wanna date you.because I see u as a best friend...he said thats dumb because your husband is suppose to be your bestfriend.


    Isee y my bf got mad wen I said that this guy was bestfriend....wtf was I thinkin
  • StillsurprisedStillsurprised
    My ex husband cheated on me many times with other women and men. But I never cheated on him. So needless to say I was not the most trusting when I met my hubby. I trust him 100%. I had a really hard time not being suspicious of everything at first, but 5.5yrs later he has never given me a reason not to trust him. Hell i married him last year hehehe and now we are having a beautiful baby girl. And hopefully one or 2 more in the next few yrs :)
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    Aww @stillsurprised and as far.as ur.ex he sucks because he was confused.....but congrats on the.baby girl and better hubby
  • StillsurprisedStillsurprised
    @fashion_junky91 he was a tool and didnt care that he hurt me. I think he cheated on me with guys cause he was in prison and maybe he missed it lol. This was a guy that would rather watch porn and beat off with me sittinh in the room, than have sex with me. Thank you though. My hubby is amazing :)
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    @stillsurprised wow im still surprised.u didnt turn lesbo lol wat a story lol ugh men right?
  • txmoorekattxmoorekat
    Never cheated on my hubby and he has never cheated on me. We established very early in our relationship how we defined cheating, and agreed that it would mean the end of our relationship because we'd never be able to trust each other again. He cheated in relationships prior to ours, but that was in high school. We'll be married 15 years next month, so far we've been doing something right! :D
  • StillsurprisedStillsurprised
    @fashion_junky91 lol ummm yeah me too lol I knew there had to be agood one out there still hehe. He even bought me a maternity swim suit for my bday (tomrrow) cause I didnt have one that fit anymore. Made me so happy.
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    @txmoorekat wow 15 years strong hell yea.ya doin somethin right lol

    @stillsurprised awwww what a guy dont u love it wen they do lil things for you especially since ur preggo ... I lkve.wen my bf brings.mecdonalds.late at night
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    I do. He is a good man and I thank God for him every day. :X
  • Fashion_Junky91Fashion_Junky91
    @Island_mommie2b you.pickd a swell one no clubs party or drinks ! Wow hard to find

    I love the fact that some of.you ladies are married and put your faith in god
  • bambi_bumpbambi_bump
    This is gonna sound a little silly but :..
    I know my boyfriend wouldn't cheat, even though he's cheated on girls before, because he just doesn't have the time and barely has time and energy to keep up with me lol.
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