really effing annoyed...

Landynplus1mommaLandynplus1momma
edited August 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
I have been here since FEBRUARY. so i may not be one of those "girls" everyone on here likes but whatever i try my hardest to give my advice which when i do everyone seems to overlook or ignore what im saying when u know what i have just as much damn experience as the next person, im frusterated hurt upset and pregnant yesterday i posted about how i have had to go to L&D 4 times this week and got maybe 6 posts which really only like 2 people answered now why is it that the SAME exact kind of post can get 50 posts...BECAUSE THEY LIKE THAT PERSON BETTER? not cool ladies im truely hurt. not like this doesnt happen EVERY SINGLE POST I MAKE and dont say its bc you didnt know how to answer bc ive seen you people posting on other peoples posts about tthe same problem i just dont get it im just as good just as nice and just as supportive as all the ladies who EVERYONE likes on here this place is like high school i keep trying and trying and just overlooking it but im tired of getting pushed aside and treated like shit i come here for support and for other pregnant friends and since im not miss pregly i cant get that and its incredibly sad. ok done maybe someone actually read this but im not gunna hold my damn breath.
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  • traci84lucastraci84lucas
    I read it and I feel the same way
  • MonkeyandpumpkinmomMonkeyandpumpkinmom
    I'm sorry. Truly. Some of my post happen to be like that to but I just appreciate anyone that helps. Are you doing any better? If you need some one to talk to just message me anytime.
  • momof22bemomof22be
    I haven't been really on the last couple days but I do try to answer the best I can just like u and sometimes well most of the time I feel ignored too I think if your not on here like every seccond of every day some people just don't respond its annoying as hell I know so if u have a question or something or just need to talk u can always inbox me and I will check it sometime in the day and get back to u btw my name is hanna I live in Utah well just moved back here I used to live in Vegas I have been married for about 9 years I have a 7 almost 8 year old boy and I am 33 w with a little girl we were ttc since we had our son so a long a$$ time my edd is September 20th and I will be naming her jasmine sumlan-k. :)
  • MyLittleLoveMyLittleLove
    I know how u feel. It's a hit and miss for me usually. I posted looking for support and just conversation yesterday and had my post over looked so I just erased the contents, opened a book and penned my thoughts... it is frustrating to see other people post and have their posts get plenty of responses and support and yours isnt reciprocated the same way. I've been emotional enough to say to hell with posting but I don't care anymore. Whoever cares will respond and if no one then I just find somewhere else to complain... sucks though but don't leave.
  • doodlesdoodles
    For a long time my posts went unanswered too! So sorry :-( have u been having preterm labor? If so I have experience there and it sucks. I never saw ur post sorry. U can inbox me or tag me in posts if ya like. I do my best to answer lots of questions. I just don't make my own posts a whole lot.
  • MoroccanmexicanbabyMoroccanmexicanbaby
    This is why I only comment and never post! Lol! But yes, I do agree with how many post one can get. Don't take it to the heart because advice is what we live on from experiences but I don't read those that Are not pregnancy related. Only once and a while I do. So no worries, i hope you have found some beneficial advice here like I have. Be patient and no stress, bad for baby
  • lilpeapod913lilpeapod913
    I feel the same way. Its a popularity contest on here and reminds me a lot of high school. It hurts my feelings sometimes too but I just keep doing what I do. If you need advice or to vent, feel free to inbox me.
  • mya218mya218
    I feel the same way. Posted my birth story and got about 11 comments. Another lady had her baby the same day and her post got over 300 comments. Some of other posts are the same way (very few comments). But its whatever, I don't need to be popular here. I try not to let it get to me. I just comment when I can, or when I feel that I could help.
  • monkey_girlmonkey_girl
    I wouldn't let this get to me. I usually comment and don't post, I'm considered a "stalker". LOL
  • cupkake80cupkake80
    I usually don't post, I don't get many responses. But the responded I do get are friendly and helpful.
    I most comment on others posts that I can offer some advise on. Sorry, if you didn't hear from me I probably didn't have anything to offer. My unborn son and I wish you well!!! Please don't consider leaving...
  • camommycamommy
    I get the same thing a lot of the time. I'm sorry hun
  • lae3lae3
    ive posted a few times and same thing.. dont take it personaly.. although its annoying and i kinda what it is in other posts that get people to respond.. hmmmmm dont know though.. (guess were not part of the popular croud.. lol) oh well never really have been.. hahahheheh..
  • MsiDriveMsiDrive
    I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes when I do go to post something, I question if I even should bc it seems like my need for help gets overlooked. Really makes me appreciate those that do take the time to help me out. I also find it kind of annoying and slightly rude when I'm asking for help/support and people start little conversations with eachother, not even paying attention to the fact that my post was about me. Ugh...this place is frustrating.
  • happymommyof2happymommyof2
    I understand i am in the same boat!
  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    I have to say I agree....but like krista22 said try bumping your thread I've had to do that myself :) Good luck sweetie!
  • erikamrscollinserikamrscollins
    How do you bump your thread
  • bigmamakbigmamak
    I know how you feel. I don't get very many responses to any of my posts. Not even the one where I fell and sprained both my ankle and my knee in June. I comment more than anything else . I don't like to post cause they usually only get one or 2 responses. I ahve also been here since Feb. when are you due?
  • pregoagainYAYpregoagainYAY
    Just type on your thread and it will go to the top. :)
  • dec10dec10
    I know how u feel so sometimes I just wont login. Hope
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  • mrr2114mrr2114
    @Landynplus1momma, I know exactly how you feel! I was not on much yesterday, most of the time I just read, but if I had seen ur post I would have tried to talk to you. Anyway, how are you doing now? How is baby? What did the dr say?
  • Landynplus1mommaLandynplus1momma
    edited August 2011
    @MRR2114 @LMelanson @mama0811 @dec10 @pregoagainYAY @bigmamak @traci84lucas @Monkeyandpumpkinmom @momof22b @k_baBix0 @erikamrscollins @happymommyof2 @Moroccanmexicanbaby @doodles @msidrive @lea3 @camommy @cupkake80 @mya218 @monkey_girl @lilpeapod913 Thanks ladies. i was having a bad morning my hormones had taken the best of me. now i am im no way trying to be miss popular or even get peoples sympathy by posting this its just when i post something just like anyone else i want support if not advice just because i am currently recieving medical attention doesnt mean i dont need support when im scared and worried even an ive been there girl i know what your going through would be nice or anything just to know someone cares really means alot to someone who is pregnant and worried. The baby and i are doing ok im on bedrest and trying to limit alot of the stress to keep my pressure down.. i got a blood pressure machine here and i have to check my blood pressure every hour until i go to sleep and if i wake up and if i have ANY spikes up to 140 i have to go to L&D. they have been preparing the baby just in case but im sure before they take her ill be admitted to the hospital first and since im not yet i remain incredibly optimistic that she will stay in there at least 7 more weeks. they are keeping a good eye on me which is nice i have an ultrasound on the 9th to see how big she is bc im measuring 6 weeks ahead and to make sure my due date is really october 14th. I am dilated to 2 already so i have to try and do the best i can with a 1 1/2 year old crazzzzy son ton stay off my feet...anyway thanks again ladies it was nice to have support today!
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  • Landynplus1mommaLandynplus1momma
    @mama0811 lol hubby helping whats that?? haha he tries his best but he works until 9 most nights so usually its me but he tries and helps on weekends but landyn is such a mommies boy that he is like MOMMA DO IT! it all works out tho im sure she will at least be in there til 37 weeks or thats what i keep telling myself! BABY AALIYAH IS ALMOST HERE! im sooo excited to see pictures of herrr im so excited for you and maybe a tad jealous lol :P good luck tho i cant wait to hear all about her arrival!
  • pnsw524pnsw524
    Wow I hope she stays in a bit longer! I couldn't imagine being on bed rest with a 18month old! Praying for you!

    I just saw this post & I always feel the same way :/ it sucks when your new or not a favorite!
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    I don't have much to add. Just wanted to say hi! :ar!
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  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    Sorry that happened I read but don't post much especially trying to juggle kailee house work and now school hope alls ok
  • bigmamakbigmamak
    Good Luck! I hope baby stays in there longer for you. I am also due Oct 14! But having a repeat csection Oct 6. I have 3 other kids ages 5, 7, and almost 4 so I know how hard it must be for you on bed rest!
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