marriage suffering because of miscarriage??
My husband and i got into a argument last night. We've been arguing a lot lately. I know on my part it's because he doesn't help me out with the baby. He works nights and I work days, our daughter goes to daycare so it's not like he's not getting any sleep anymore. All I want him to do is maybe put a load of laundry in or wash the baby's bottles from daycare for the next day...nothing too out of the way. I probably do nag him too much but sheesh that's all I ask him to do. So anyways we get into because I asked him to do something and he gets all bent out of shape.
He's told me before he hasn't been able to stand me for a long time(when we've been arguing before so Idk if its anger or truth when he says it) and last night he told me ever since we had our miscarriage last yr with our first pregnancy that I've changed so much and not the person who he loved. (Well damn our child was taken from us!) So im kinda of lost. We've been arguing so much and for him to tell me all that just really hurts. We've been married for almost 3 yrs and I do love him. I just wish he would help out a bit. It just seems im taking care of our 3 month old alone and he turns around and says I don't care about our kid and im such a bad mother, blah blah blah.
He's told me before he hasn't been able to stand me for a long time(when we've been arguing before so Idk if its anger or truth when he says it) and last night he told me ever since we had our miscarriage last yr with our first pregnancy that I've changed so much and not the person who he loved. (Well damn our child was taken from us!) So im kinda of lost. We've been arguing so much and for him to tell me all that just really hurts. We've been married for almost 3 yrs and I do love him. I just wish he would help out a bit. It just seems im taking care of our 3 month old alone and he turns around and says I don't care about our kid and im such a bad mother, blah blah blah.
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He needs to understand that what you went through was alot to take emotionally and if it changed you its understandable but he should help you get through it.