does anyone else just not want to have sex at all?

1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I was told that I would want to have sex all of the time and I'm the total opposite, I don't want to have sex at all. Actually I'm kind of repulsed by the thought! :( I'm not down for any intamatcy at all. Anyone else feeling like this?

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  • coolbabybeanscoolbabybeans
    Same here, and when I do wanna have sex (like once a month) I feel like I'm gonna puke right after....bleck
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    Amen to that! Haha I just felt like a freak cause we have sex 1 time a month and idk why I don't want to at all! Its freaking weird lol :P
  • MummyNumber3MummyNumber3
    I hate it too.. the thought of anything thing to do with being sexual makes me feel sick! Lol my poor other half must love me tor putting up with it Haha.. Nah he understands but I could go agggges and not care and when I give in for his sake I just want it to be over asap lol
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @mummynumber3 yes omgggg haha that's so me. I purely do it for his sake, and I just hope its over as soon as it starts! Lol
  • mz_sandersmz_sanders
    I dont but its not that my sex drive is gone its just I have 2 tell my bf 2 brush his teeth all the time. I cant stand the smell of cigs so I have 2 tell him 2 spray axe 2. It would be really nice if he would just quit altogether.
  • allie8955allie8955
    yes Im not alone!! i thought I was a freak or going crazy cuz I didn't want sex. I feel so bad for my husband and I truly hope he understands...but I just can't do it! mayb once in a while ill have it and then feel sick afterwards...agh.
  • debsdebs
    This is my third pregnancy and every pregnancy I don't want sex my husband is use to it now I try every couple months to have sex just not into it
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @Mz_sanderz amen to that! Lol finally got my bf to quit smoking but I hated it. It was an iratant to me like it instantly po'd me.

    @debs and @allie8955 no doubt! I thought I was the only one too! But looks like I, not thank god! Lol
  • bummy87bummy87
    I'm like I want to but when we get together n start things it just doesnt progress we did last night n it was so awkward I cant breath on my right side or my back, I had to stop 2yo take something for heartburn then it hurts when he goes in n once the pain stops I feel nothing so whats the point
  • missmommy28missmommy28
    I'm the exact time. My bf can only get pecks from me. Anything else is pushing it. We haven't done the deed in almost a month cuddled or nothing. The idea digusts me actually. Id rather be left alone its terrible. I'm thinkin cause I feel sick all the tme and the idea of someone laying on me o a tongue in my mouth when I've been puking all day uhm no thanks
  • Mommie_of_2_BoysMommie_of_2_Boys
    Omg I feel all of y'all my hubby smokes an the smell maks me sick an wen he do brush his teeth I can't get into it cuz I hav heart burn so bad
  • AND83AND83
    I could go the rest of my life without it. I'm just not a sexual being, pregnant or not. I'll have to give in soon. It's already been a month.
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @missmommy28 exactly! I hate to kiss my bf like good ones esp making outt! He's doing good to get a peck and everything else makes me want to vomit! I feel bad but I can't help ittt! :( how far along are you?
  • missmommy28missmommy28
    @1sttimemommy92 I know I feel terrible too. Its nothing personal but the idea is so repulsive. When I'm in bed and I hear him comin upstairs I tense up because I know I'm going to b kissed. It sounds terrible but I can't help it. I will be twelve weeks on Monday. Wht about you?
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @missmommy28 I know what you mean. He always comes and kisses me and tries to make it all long and sexual and it just pisses me off! :( I tell him I can't help it and he doesn't believe me :( but I'm 17 weeks and 2 days! :) Congrats!!!!!!
  • missmommy28missmommy28
    @1sttimemommy92 I am right there with you. its gets worse though h told meif I make outwith himi can have my girl name pick lol so I did lol. Congrats to you to do u know what your having? I can't wait to find out
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  • TechGirlPaTechGirlPa
    I'm in the first and I haven't been in the mood but I feel tired when I'm actually at home with my Love. : (
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    Exactly! I'm so glad I'm not alone I felt like a total freak! But I'm in the second trimester ( 17weeks and 2 days) but I haven't felt like it the entire time! :( lol
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @missmommy28 no I don't know what it is yet, :( I find out hopefully on march 3rd at my next appointment! I can't wait to know, I'm dying! Lol
  • lovingmybabyboylovingmybabyboy
    You took the words out of my mouth! I can't stand any type of intimacy at all. Just to see my hubby naked makes me gag (he has a nice bod). LOL
  • missmommy28missmommy28
    @1sttimemommy92 I'm getting a 3d one done at fifteen weeks cause I can't wat til my 20week apt lol m so impatient I want a little girl so bad and want to shop for the baby lol what do you want??

    @lovingmybabyboy yes when my bf gets out the shower in the morning I keep my eyes closed. Oh boy. This baby must be biggest prude in the world lol jk
  • 1sttimemommy921sttimemommy92
    @missmommy28 awee yay! I think I'm gonna wait till like 28 or so to get a 3d just because ill see it and what it is at 18 and I'm gojna try to spread it out! Lol but it doesn't matter to me what he or she is! I just want healthy! But id like to know what it is so I can go shopping too! :( its killing me haha!
  • MsKrystalMsKrystal
    I didn't want to at all from the time I found out 5 weeks ago until like 3 days ago. I think it was all the cramping/gas/nausea. Now that a lot of it has subsided, I find myself wanting to have sex again. Hmmm... where's that man? Lol
  • nicksmommynicksmommy
    meee! ugh i just dont want to but my hubby does..i dont know what to tell him. we use to have sex like 4 times a day before my pregnancy now blah! dont want to..and he knows it to. poor my hubby.
  • momtobe2momtobe2
    I'm the same too. I don't know what to do because my husband wants. Sometimes he gets mad hahhaah
  • grissy_barriagrissy_barria
    I did not want sex my first trimester and the beginning of the second about 2 weeks ago I started getting so horny I want it all the time (I'm now 28 weeks) u just have to give your body time idk how I even got pregnant lol I was never the type to want sex lol but yeah now I want it everyday sometimes 2 times :)
  • missmommy28missmommy28
    Ughhhh so my bf knows I don't even wanna be touchd. Its at the point. That I put a two pillow barrier between us becase he'd touch me then id be angry and not be able to sleep. I already never sleep as is cause I always feel sick. So today I benice and don't put the barrier but told him stillno to touchh. So I actually fall asleep and what he do? Creep on over extra close like trying to I think merge as one person. Really? So now he's over snoozing wile I'm stuck away with my re established barrier.... oh p.s. lip smacking while sleepin has to be the most annoying thing!!! Can I beat him with a pillow
  • keelzkeelz
    Lol i know what you mean im 25 weeks and still no sex drive im normally to tired i feel so bad i told my husband if he quit smoking id want to have sex more and he did and i still dont want it poor bugger he quit 4 weeks ago lol
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